If he wanted me once couldn’t he want me again? How do I get him back from the other woman?
Is it possible to win my husband back from "the other woman"? He seems to have found another girl… says he isn’t in love… they’re just dating, but I want so badly to save my marriage. Is it possible to win him back? I mean we’ve been separated for 4 months, but for a month he wanted to get back together but then just changed his mind. I mean if he wanted me again one time, couldn’t he again?
The issues that made us separate in the first place have been solved and he knows this, I think at this point hes just scared to put himself out there to maybe be hurt by me again. I just want him back, I want to prove that I’ve worked through my anger and lying issues. Which I have and he notices that. I’ve been going to counseling. I just don’t know what to do… Help?
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He could want you again, but it’s unlikely. He has now found someone who he apparently thinks might be an upgrade.
Its time for you to move on !!!
The love that he HAD for you is focused on someone else !!!
He’s gone, you’re out of his picture, find someone else.
Sounds like he’s soured on marriage to you. You can ask him to go to marital counseling with you to see if there is anything salvageable in the marriage. Good luck.
He’s dating her while he’s married to you? How nice.
I would stop all contact with him. The more you engage him and act friendly, the more you let him know you’re a doormat and accepting his affair.
Time to put your foot down. I would just file for divorce if he’s going to act like a jerk out in the open like that. No respect for you.
Keep going to counseling on your own.
No move on. He cheated on you!!! that is a deal breaker. What you should really be asking is why would you want a man back that cheated on you? If you had feelings for him you can have feeling for someone else. Move on. You only feel this "attachment" towards him cuz he dumped you and when that happens our egos are hurt and we have a nagging feeling of wanting to know why but nothing good can come of it. So work on yourself some more and move on.
u need to know that a man will be with who wants to be. if hes not with you then he doesnt want to be with you.
if ya wanna try to get him back, try and find another guy.
ever notice that when you are single, no one wants you. but when your taken everyone is all over you?
idk try it i guess.
If you love him let him go. The only way to know for sure that he loves you back is if he comes back to you. He might come home and he might not, but the best thing you can do for yourself is move on with your life.
your best bet is to back off. seriously. if you try to intervene in their relationship you will only be causing trouble for him. trust me, he won’t see the other woman as the culprit. also, you will only be making the other woman more stubborn in her resolve to be with him. bad idea. so here’s what you do. you back off, let their relationship dissolve on it’s own, and then you step in and try for him. their relationship will more than likely dissolve without your involvement. she sounds like the rebound relationship and she will realize it eventually. whatever you do, DO NOT LIE ABOUT HER!! if you find something out and KNOW IT TO BE TRUE, don’t just tell him about it. prove it to him. seriously if you lie about her you will be digging your hole a little deeper each time. take it from that "other woman" that the divorcee tried to take her husband back from. she was extremely unsuccessful. she tried to get involved. she treats me like dirt. she lied about me, and continues to do so. she causes a lot of stress for my new husband, therefore he just shoves her further and further out of his life. so learn from her and do the opposite. be friendly towards her. show your ex that you can be mature and understanding. he will lean more towards you than her, and she will grow angry about that eventually. that’s your ticket. don’t get mad. let her get mad.
If you are separated then there isn’t a lot you can do. Maybe he’s enjoying being apart now and for the first month he was struggling with you both being apart.
You need to move on. Sorry this isn’t what you want to hear, but if he comes back he comes back, if he doesn’t he doesn’t, but you need to get on with your life.
do you honestly feel like you could love him again like you used to? he’s already been with someone else, making him "used goods".
i think you’re just used to him…and that’s why you think you still want him. prove to yourself that you’ve overcome your issues and let him go honey.