How to go about getting my ex back?
The day we broke up, the last thing she said was asking if we could still be friends. I said I dont see friends working and said sorry. she said she was sorry also and thats the last thing we said to eachother. Its been 3 days and we have said nothing. what should I do?
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im going through the same thing. Everyone has said no contact for a month is the best thing to do, it will give her time to think and know what she really wants. If it was a long term relationship and it was good, she is going to come back, but if you beg that will only push her away. If i were you i would try to stick it out and keep no contact for a while.
Keep your lines of communication with your ex-girlfriend open; by remaining in contact with her you will be giving your ex-girlfriend a chance to see what went wrong in your relationships. This will be very useful to you in making your plans to win her heart back.
Think back honestly over your earlier relationship with your ex-girlfriend; look for reasons for your association to have ended. This honest appraisal will show you if the alliance ended due to some mistakes of yours which you did not make amends for in time.
By this appraisal you will clearly understand the reasons for the end of your earlier alliance. This will help you make a fresh start and accept any blame you may face when you talk with your ex-girlfriend about the reasons for the end of your earlier alliance.
The course of action suggested here is useful in reestablishing your alliance with your ex-girlfriend; but you should look for advice and suggestion from other sources too. You will find there are many sites on the internet that will offer advice and suggestion on winning back your ex-sweetheart. Look at the other options too before deciding on your course of action.
After you go through all the advice and suggestions you get about rekindling your romance with your ex-girlfriend, you will surely learn of the signs by which you can read your ex-girlfriends heart; you will also know what mistakes you made earlier that caused a break in your alliance and how to avoid them.
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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you do the right things, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
Here are helpful steps that helped me to get my ex girlfriend back:
Don’t Ask Her To Get Back Together
You should never ask her to get back together. Why? Simple, because her answer will be NO!
You’re only shot at getting your ex girlfriend back is to do the right things that will make her ask you to get back together. Maybe if you broke up with her, then you might be able to be the one who brings up the subject of getting back together. But if you can do it without, it would be much better.
But how do you get someone back without seeming desperate? In order to get girls attention, you have to show value without telegraphing your interest in her, while at the same time initiating interaction.
So don’t ignore someone’s texts and calls when they break up with you. It screams that you are so devastated by the breakup that you can’t even handle talking to her. You want to respond to her, but do it in the right way. You can even initiate communication if you do it in the right way.
You have to maintain a strong frame of confidence, and show your ex girlfriend that your happiness isn’t dependent on being with her.
Don’t Be Jealous
You must understand that …SHE IS GONNA DATE SOMEONE ELSE. Let that sink in good. And not only is she gonna date someone else, it can be someone you know, maybe even one of your friends. Tough to swallow I know. It’s ok if it bothers you, but don’t let it show and don’t call her out on it. Remember, you are not together anymore, and you don’t have any right to tell her what to do.
If you do want to win her back, then you just have to weigh the decision.
Being Flexible Is Very Important
Do not be that stereotypical angry ex. Do not throw out their stuff or demand for them to come pick up their stuff right now. It’s better to be flexible, easy-going and understanding. A person who takes things easily is an attractive quality in itself. It may inspire your ex girlfriend to start communicating with you again faster then you might think.
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Hope it helps.