we were together for 15 months, lived together for 6 months. we are both 20. we broke up because he felt "smothered" by me, i have since worked on those issues with a therapist i see every week and im currently taking medication for depression/anxiety/mood swings. i am in a much better place than i was before. we broke up 2 months ago and for the first month or so we didnt talk much, bcuz it was too hard. i had messaged him on thanksgiving just to tell him i hope he had a good holiday, and we started talking, heres wut happened since:

-told me his ‘rebound’ gf isnt treating him right
-told me he misses my family
-said he still wants me to be in his life
-he has asked my friends about a mutual friend of ours that i had been hanging out with alot, he wanted to know if we were dating
-he got really mad at that friend and they got into an argument, in which he was defending me.

i had kinda ignored most of these just bcuz i didnt want to get my hopes up for nothing but here are the more recent ones:

-he started talking to me everyday, him talking to me first.
-sometimes he will just i/m me to say something random like he saw my uncle at his work or something.
-when i asked him straight up if he wouldnt consider working things out in the future, he said thats not how it is.
-he asked me to print him something and came over my house at 2am to get it, and he stayed til 5am talking and when he left he gave me a hug.
-he told me that i hav nothing to be upset about concerning his gf bcuz they want different things and he doesnt see it lasting very long.
-he texted that friend asking if i was with him, then asking what time i would be home, "can you plz just ask her when she will be home", i texted him and he just wanted to know if i wanted to hang out.
-i hung out with him and his friend that i previously didnt get along with, and we all had a rly good time.
-he i/med me the next day while he was driving home in the car by himself (he usually doesnt text while driving unless someone talks to him first), and he told me that ‘tim’ his friend said things were cool last night, and we are friends again.
-and after that night we hung out, when he dropped me off, he asked if i wanted him to walk me to the door, and i said that i didnt care (which he knows i didnt, he could have just dropped me off and it would have been fine) but he shut the car off and walked me to the door anyway and gave me a hug before he left.

im sorry for how long it is =/ also, he is the most genuine guy, i KNOW he doesnt just want a booty call, hes not like that at all, and he wouldnt try to play any mind games with me…hes just not an asshole. im just wondering if these are just friendly gestures or if it could mean hes thinking about getting back together?

thank you soo much!!
he also told me he still loves me and cares about me.
im fine with the rebound bcuz im not a jealous person, and i know that theres nothing rly there between them and its not going to last…so why waste my time worrying about it. plus, if i flipped out about it, it would only make him defend her out of irritation with me and it would just make me look immature and bitchy (which is wut i have moved past).


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