How can i get my girl back as soon as possible?
I screwed up with her, calling her bad names, basically taking her for granted over and over again. The sad part is, she gave me so many chances to change, and I was so caught up I didn’t realize I was hurting her. Then that day came, and she finally gave up on me and left me. Now she won’t talk to me, I’ve apologized and everything, she just ignores me. She means everything to me, what do I do, help?
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dont just say it do it. we girls really love movie scenes, we do! do something off the charts-movie style romantic. serenade her outside her bedroom window, show up with a dozen flowers..beg, really. if you love her that much and she really means that much to you then swallow your manly pride and do it because thats whats going to get her back. if this technique doesnt work, then im sorry, but im pretty sure its a lost cause and you really f* up. :/ but im serious, i hope you do try these things, they would work on me, if someone ever tried.. good luck
P.S. just show her that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to get her back. that that’s how much she means to you and more.. oh i really hope you work things out
if it does please let me know, im in need of a good real break up/make up story 
My current boyfriend who is now my fiance done the same thing to me. It took him a bit of time to fully get me back because he hurt me so bad but heres what he done. He would buy me roses and send them to my work with a little note saying i love you and i am sorry he also would write me letters and seal with a kiss. He wrote a ten page letter explaining how he felt about me and how he couldnt live without me. He told me that i was the first girl to love him for him and didnt want alot of material listic items im as happy as i can be as long as i have him. i hope i helpd even a little i know it hurts and i am sorry i hope the best of luck for you.. And remember if you love something you gotta let it go and if its meant to be it will come back…
you may have to live with this the rest of your life……..
learn from and don’t repeat the same mistake……
you might try written communication….
you get to edit what you say
you don’t get interrupted
the bad part about this is you may go too far by putting your feelings etc in writing
i used to tell my son when he was dating in high school
1. never write i love you–this is evidence
2. give candy, they eat it
3. give flowers, they only last a week
4. give money they spend it
5. if you get lucky–never broadcast to your friends…..nobody –never–ever –it’s disrespectful
6. if she tells her friends, that’s different
7. and always use protection
if you go the written route
say you’ve learned a very important lesson…
a very painful one
unfortunately the hard way….
don’t beg, grovel,
don’t cry,
be mature and say you would like to start over again
call a few days later and ask if she read your BRIEF note
don’t push for an answer on the spot…..she’ll say no…
tell her you meant it when you said you learned a painful lessson…….
then say I’ll call you after you’ve had time to consider starting over again–one day at a time
then say something like thanks for taking my call…get off the phone as soon as you can
call in two days with a plan to go or do something low stress and fun….
if she says ok….you better mean everything,
otherwise you’re a jerk….
if she says no….tell her, ok–thanks– and then say…I’ll always carry you around in my heart…
use my words exactly……
good luck—now write me a check for a million bucks