How is it hard to get aroused from your girlfriend/wife?
I was just looking through other answers from why men watch porn and one of the answers was "Most of the time they don"t look at porn to get off on it alone, most of em’ just look at porn to get hard and then will think of their gf to get off on" so why can’t they become aroused by just thinking of their girlfriend, why do they need "help" to start off? Does it mean that they are unattractive until after you’re already aroused?
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Oh gosh no. Porn is often inspiration for men, being very visual creatures. I think for some guys they could live on Porn alone, but for many they see the images, and they fantasize their wife in the same way. It’s like painting your house, and going up to Home Depot to get the Color Cards. It just looks better if you get examples than just look at your own wife.
There is also the issue that many wives really cut back on what they will do, or how much they will do it as married women. If they would have sex outside, by the lake single usually turns into only having sex in the bedrooms on Sunday mornings which is the most boring thing for a guy. He wants it kind of crazy, and porn kind of connects those dots to where he wants to be sexually.
Once women settle into a relationship they usually gain weight and stop taking care of themselves and stop making themselves look sexy. This is why it pays for men to "hit it and quit it" without bothering to actually get mired down in a relationship (much less a marriage). At least if you are a man who cares about sex.
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