Will I ever love again?
After spending 7 years, on and off with a guy that was going to be my husband, he left me about a year ago. Didn’t really give a reason, personally I think there was another girl. BUT I’m still not even close to getting over him. I still love him as much as I did the day he left. We still talk every now and then and it just hurts because I know I can’t have him so I cry myself to sleep. I have been in a couple of relationships that didn’t last long and always ended in disaster. Will I ever find another true love like my first love?
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I was hooked on my first love for over six years after we broke up, and get this: we only dated for nine months and that was when we were both 16 years old.
I’ve had serious relationships since then, not as long as yours, but each time I felt that I’d never love again. But as hard as it is to believe, it’s not true. The man I am married to now is everything I’ve ever wanted- he’s my lover and my best friend, my cheering section, and we support one another. I wouldn’t have met him if I had stayed in these other relationships, and relationships that end are good for experience. You learn what you want, and what you don’t want. Someone who truly loves you won’t leave you.
And if you talk to your ex, even every now and again, you’re not going to heal from this. Each time you speak, the old wounds open up again. Distance from this man is the first step you should take.
I know it’s hard to believe, but take it from someone who was in your shoes for six years: Yes, you will love again.
to find love, you must first get over this love.
Yeah you will it will just take time and will usually happen when you aren’t looking for it
Yes you will love again. It may be greater than your first. The first did not appreciate you like you did him. Don’t cry anymore, enjoy your live and when you least expect it you’ll find him.
It’s very cliche, but it quite often proves to be quite true – it’s always darkest before the dawn.
Obviously, I don’t know the circumstances, but I’m not sure if you are doing yourself any favours by chatting with him from time to time. It doesn’t give you the distance to start getting your emotional stuff together again.
And, I also hate to tell you this as well, but you are not going to find the type of relationship you want until you are strong enough to not actually need the relationship. Not sure if you know what I mean – but you have to have an inner-strength and be your own person. A good relationship takes two independent adults willing to share life’s challenges together.
Still, you sound like a good person who cares, and that’s the important thing. (It would be much worse if you were bitter and angry). So, hang in there, and time will work it’s magic and when the time is right – you’ll have that relationship you desire.
Best of luck !!!
hi im really sorry for you! and i know how you feel believe me! the thought of him being with another woman can drive you crazy…and feeling to know you can never have him again and never feel him again like you did beforewell what can i say? i would its good that you tried other relationships!! really it is…you maybe wont ever love someone like you love him, but i am sure one day there will be someone special who get through your heart…it wont be the same kind of love, but im sure there will be love again… just wait for someone who is truely nice and good hearted!! all you can do is try to accept it…and try to move on, even if it is easy to say…if you want someone to talk to, you can write me, good luck for you!!!
Yes honey, you can love again. It will take some time… sooner for some.
Go on the website http://www.Catchhimandkeephim.com. There are some tips in this book to bring up back you self esteem and show you where you maybe went wrong in your relationship.
Too bad we need each other, because men have been causing lots of heartache to women due to them not wanting to make a committment.
good luck. Love yourself, change your hairstyle, get a massage. Pick up and go out again. There are many fishes in the ocean.