Is it possible to fall in love again?
Any insight would be SO appreciated!
Last night my husband and I finally had a heart-to-heart until 4 in the morning. The truth came out and I am so relieved that it did, because at least theres some honesty on the table.
We both came to the mutual agreement that we have not been "in love" for about 7 months now (right after the birth of our daughter) but that we love eachother and do want to work things out. We are going to go to marraige counseling and we both decided individual counseling would be best for both of us as well, as we both have things we need to work on.
I guess I just want to know if it is possible to fall back in love after so long and how?
Also, when is it time to say "enough is enough" and maybe we just arent right for eachother?
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Heavens yes i believe anything is possible. It sounds like the two of you arent to a point of quitting so I believe it could happen. Maybe the counseling will help the two of you find your places in the marriage. It always seems to be having kids makes or breaks a relationship. Its sad but its true. I wish you both the very best but I think you will both be fine. As for when you say thats enough….when you are ready to walk out the door and never look back, you fight constantly, and/or there is physical abuse involved. Thats when its time to head on to bigger and better things.
Yes it is possible to "fall back in love"….how long it takes depends on the people involved. It sounds like you guys have a great start. You have talked together about it and agreed to go to counseling to try to fix it. Time with the counselors will tell you whether or not this marriage is fixable or not. Good luck.
It is possible to recapture that loving feeling and the passion that goes with it but it takes TWO people to want it. Marriage is hard work and needs constant attention. Your circumstances and priorities have changed over the last few months therefore your marriage changes with it. It is up to you to make your marriage a priority. Good luck & congrats with the baby!
no one ever said marriage would be easy
as long as you both want the same things in life.. there is always hope
you already love each other.. now go and act like it
yes it is possible to fall in love again. If the both of you believe in God, he will work it out for you
Yes you can fall in love again. There must have been something good in the start and it has just gotten lost with the pressures of parenthood. It sounds like you are both committed to really trying which is wonderfull for both yourselves and your daughter. I wish you all the best and it warms my heart to know you both care so much about each other that you are willing to try everything possible. If by some chance to go your separate ways at least you’ll know you tried.
it is possible to fall in love again, if both of you understand each other and will work out our differences. but if he does not understand you at all, then the love starts fading away and its finally gone.
sure its possibble unless there’s been some kind of betrayal involved.