Is it possible for my husband to fall back in love with me?
My husband finally said he wants us to try again after 2 months of being separated. Although, he says hes not in love… do you think its possible for him to fall back in love? I’m still completely in love with him… but is it possible for people to fall back in love? What am I supposed to do?
The issues that I had are pretty much cleared up. I’ve been going to counseling and he sees that.
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Yes, and thing #1 is get some self confidence so that you’re interesting to be with!
You need to respect the fact that your husband clearly told you he doesn’t love you anymore. It seems he’s only coming back as a convenience. Have some self-respect and get rid
If he’s not in love with you it’s clearly not going to work out. Move on and end this before it escalades your only hurting yourself. What’s meant to be will be.
You can certainly try. I’ll tell you the usual stuff, do romantic things together, try to discover eachother again and why you fell in love in the first place. Dinner, movie and some quiet time at home with soft music always works. I wish you good luck.
yes it is possible for peole to fall back in love. just be yourself and if he doesnt fall in love with you while your being yourself then you guys are not ment for eachother.
if you’re married he most likely never has fallen out of love with you. he may not be IN love with you, but he probly still LOVES you. probly always will. it’s definitely possible to fall back in love. just try simple things. you should go rent fireproof.. it’s a movie about a couple trying to rekindle their marriage.. might help a little.
good luck and keep your head up! 
Yes I definitely think his feelings for you will become stronger again. I do not know the details of what caused your split in the first place, but you should be encouraged by the fact that both of you are willing to try again and keep working on things. Whatever qualities of yours that he fell in love with in the first place are probably still there, so he will be able to resume loving you again. He may possibly love you even more with all of the positive feelings that could come out of the reuniting of your relationship.
Only if he´s afraid. You see,he knows more than you do. The only reason that a man will go backwards is because he´s afraid of something he´s found out about. Don´t think you´re safe. Your warranty has a limit.
I’m sorry you are going throgh this, but if there is no love there is nothing. I think you can not fall back in love again. If he wants to try is because he is still in love, but be prepared if he is not because then you will may have problems again! Good luck!
If he is coming back then he really never did fall out of love with you . Don’t think he wouldn’t if you don’t straiten out though. The next time will be the last time
Anything is possible.
The only person i see here is going to get hurt over again. And that’s you, if you think you want too try please do.But don’t let him move in with you right away. See if he will fall back in Love with you by ,starting all over. Bye Dating and just seeing each other thy way for awhile. Don’t give in too him for sex, for this may be all he wants. He said he does not Love you, so really why take a change to begin with. And why are you going too counseling ,He should be there also to make it work.
right now go for love,
being in love” isn’t even in the bible, but ”loving” is.
be happy he loves you, when we’re in love it has so many stages anyway–being in love always makes us insecure
so just love him back.
men are strong but in a way they are weak so don’t keep bringing up his past failures, don’t bitch, they hate drama even if they deserve it.
I know things may seem bleak right now- but yes you can fall back in love. I was separated from my husband for 4 months and we were both very cautious getting back into it. After many long nights sitting up talking about what we both experienced (good & bad) over the previous 4 months- we were so happy to be together again. If you ever really love someone- you never stop loving them. Ever. Being ‘In-Love’ is different, but even that can come and go through the years.
Keep your head up and try to stay positive. Don’t forget to take time out for yourself either. That will go a long way- the happier you are, the happier he’ll be. Ever notice how even when you’re not having such a great day- but he is on Cloud 9 for whatever reason… you can’t help but be happier too? We are instinctually programmed to want to be around happy people. (Not those creepy- omg-I-have-to-smile-all-the-time-cuz-my-life-is-so-perfect kinda happy people, but the normal ones. lol)
Hope this Helps! Good Luck!
From experience yes it is possible. Honey he wants to come back that is a start. Now take things slow… you need to realize the reasons he left in the first place. Understand them….. and if it is reasonable change those things. I know for those 2 months you were devastated, that’s exactly how long my husband and I were separated before we realized it was stupid. But I realized a few things about myself. I am not always right… pick and chose your battles if its really worth arguing over then go for it but if it is something that wont matter in 2 hours or even the next day bite your tongue. It is healthy to argue but only so much and that usually drivers a lot of people away. Take a look at things from his point of View… even if it makes no sense still try. You will prob have a lot of frustration, resentment etc at first but remember something made him leave and u need to bite ur tongue until u find out what it was. Be that fun outgoing thoughtful person u was when u first got together. Oh and I got a tip I got from a councilor… make the word YES your favorite word. You have no idea how much it changes things. If he asks for something ANYTHING… you say yes and be happy about it. Even if u don’t have time for something he wants… you find that time. You show him that no matter what this crazy life of family kids work etc he is still your number one. Well good luck I hope I helped at least a little.
If your husband isn’t in love with you, then why would he be wanting to come back home? Now if he thought he didn’t love you and has since found out that he did, that’s different. I would have to start with baby steps, maybe spend some time with him without letting him move back in. You need to communicate. Then , and only then would him moving back be an option. Let him know that you still love him but you deserve that love in return and you will not compromise on this. To answer your question, yes it is possible to fall in and out of love with your spouse. I have been married for 32 years and both of us have. I think if every one was honest, they would tell you the same.
yes but it will take some time