How do I talk to her…I really like her but she doesn’t seem to like me back?
Hopefully, you all remember my last question. Long story short, liked another muslimah online, she told me she was nineteen, i am eighteen, we start talking for months online, on myspace, on messenger, through voice chat, even through our phones, and I plan to see my friend in Cali, and he happens to live close to her…so I asked if I can meet her for real…I guess she got freaked out or whatever…but anyway, she rejected me…and told me she was 16, pretending she always had told me that…I was like ok…can we at least be friends…I mean I really liked her and all, I put all my trust in her…It’s been 2 or 3 weeks, and we haven’t spoken… I really miss her but she told me she doesn’t want me like that…But these whole months she was leading me on….as if she liked me back…then she told me she didn’t want that…I am so heart broken, because I still have feelings for her…I want to message her but I don’t at the same time, because if I do i’ll seem desperate. I told her things no one else knows…I wish she likes me back but she doesn’t and it makes me sick…the first person I actually try to be with…I wish things were different.
For once in my life I actually thought I could trust somebody…I can’t believe I shared all my secrets and was really attracted to this person…it’s hard to let go. And the sad thing is she probably doesn’t even have me on her mind…I was led on…I still have feelings but I’m not sure how to go on about this situation.
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ahhhh 1st love!
now be a good little muslim boy. and stop talking to girls!
read quran and do salat, it will be good brother. dont worry, in times of anguish there is a dua, i will find it for you.
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Laa ‘ilaaha ‘illallaahul-’Adheemul-Haleem, laa ‘ilaaha ‘illallaahu Rabbul-’Arshil-’Adheem, laa ‘ilaaha ‘illallaahu Rabbus-samaawaati wa Rabbul-’ardhi wa Rabbul-’Arshil-Kareem .
There is none worthy of worship but Allah the Mighty, the Forbearing. There is none worthy of worship but Allah, Lord of the Magnificent Throne. There is none worthy of worship but Allah, Lord of the heavens and Lord of the earth, and Lord of the Noble Throne.
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Allaahumma rahmataka ‘arjoo falaa takilnee ‘ilaa nafsee tarfata ‘aynin, wa ‘aslih lee sha’nee kullahu, laa’ilaaha ‘illaa ‘Anta.
O Allah , I hope for Your mercy . Do not leave me to myself even for the blinking of an eye (i.e. a moment) . Correct all of my affairs for me . There is none worthy of worship but You.
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Laa ‘ilaaha ‘illaa ‘Anta subhaanaka ‘innee kuntu minadh-dhaalimeen .
There is none worthy of worship but You, glory is to You. Surely, I was among the wrongdoers.
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Allaahu Allaahu Rabbee laa ‘ushriku bihishay’an.
Allah, Allah is my Lord. I do not associate anything with Him.
women do that.
Best to stay away from this sort of thing
her name better not be sara
She probably lied about stuff and didn’t want you to find out.
its k .
learn from ur mistakes
Let it go and learn from your mistakes. She is obviouslySO not worth it.
i understand you bro…but you are a little stupid!!!!!
She sounds like a Gemini, she probably freaked out, best to leave her alone and get on with your life.