What Do Guys Look For In A Girl How Can I Get Him To Stay Interested In Me?
I like this guy and he said he likes me and think im kool and wants to get to know me better.I wanna know how I can keep him interested in me? How do I get him to want me? He works three jobs and he said that when hes off work we can hang out and stuff.I see him today at his job to give him something that he needs so what can I do to flirt with him? To like me like i like him?
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I can’t understand why people think they can generalise on things when they are working with a very specific scenario. e.g. all cows are brown so this white animal with black patches and udders must not be a cow.
There are commonalities among guys you can understand and use. However, to get beyond the initial attraction (like you have now), you have to understand the guy more and tailor your approach to what he wants. Posting a question up here asking for what he likes is about as useful as phoning up a psychic and getting your fortune told. A psychic would probably have a better clue.
Common likes among men:
feminine women
stands up for herself
moderately easy going
upbeat
70% hip to waist ratio
preferably mature but the level of maturity should be tailored to that of the guy
intelligence is similar to that of the guy
is able to banter
is fun (I wasn’t sure whether I should put this in since there are some guys who do not necessarily find this attractive)
playful
tips:
pretend to be a tad less confident than the guy to give him a bit of a boost (he will get more confident later on)
try to calibrate with his needs
be supportive (especially when he has 3 jobs)
discretion is holding back (prefably until both of you feel comfortable); that’s not the same thing as pretending to be someone else
Common dislikes:
immaturity
bossy (again, I was a little hesitant since some guys like to be submissive)
ignorant
complains about men all the time (if you have issues, read up on gender differences)
devalues the guy/insult him to death
refuse to understand the guy
dull
trying to be someone she is not
manipulate the guy – one of the most disfavourite and from the detail of your qq, I am guessing this is what you were trying to do
emotional rollercoaster – emotional immaturity
I see flirting as a form of play and banter. More sophisticated techniques require calibration with the correct audience. i.e. if he cannot flirt at that sort of level, he will look like a stumbling idiot. so stick to basics unless he can take it (from what I am guessing, you’re not that skilled either). From your description of this guy, I am guessing he is not all that skilled. The basic flirting tips are:
playing with your hair (unless you’re in your 30s+ or have really short hair)
smiling whilst gazing into his eyes
occassional touching
very very mild teasing
I would avoid playing hard to get when the guy has 3 jobs and of this amateur level, if you can help it of course. After a tired day of work, I think the last thing he wants is for you to be childish and make him really work for you. There is a limit and you have to make sure you do not push it too far or the whole thing collapses. Plus, the fact that he lacks that sort of skill means he has nothing to fight back with, so playing hard to get would only introduce communication barriers and uneasiness in the relationship.
Having said that, it does not mean that you jump onto him and give him everything you have. There is a level of discretion and comfort needs to be built up over time. Let him get more intimate once you feel more comfortable with him.
Hope this helps
Here’s what I like in a woman but apparently I’m an exception so take this how you will. I want a girl who inside, is funny, nice, but she’s not a pushover, some attitude is nice. I just had a super heart-breaking incident with this girl I liked, and half the reason it was bad was cause she hooked up with this guy who only thought she was hot so after yknow honestly I wishe that she was ugly. Uea you just heard a guy say that. I wished the girl I like was ugly. I’m 16, sounds like your older, so idk I just hope this helps you. Someone funny, cute, and just fun to be with. If it doesn’t work it doesn’t work, that something special has to happen; you have to connect with him. I hope this helps, I really do
PLEASE answer my question, I beseech you.
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap.udOm9hlMvz0y960O3y4bsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091227061953AA8MIjP
Emm depends.. does he seem like a sensitive type? Or a bad boy type?