Winning him back -What’s the best way?
So me and my boyfriend recently broke up, and I was just wondering what is the best method to win somebody back? Showing your feelings and telling them how much you care or playing it cool and seeing if they come crawling back? He says we need time and that we’d probably end up getting back together in february but i don’t know what to do in the mean time to make it a sure deal..=/
by the way, i’m completely crazy about him so playing it cool would be completely fake but i’m not quite sure if that’s not as bad as it seems. Not talking to him would be really hard, but could be it the best way to make him come back or not?
oh, and i know for sure there is nobody else in his life but me so that’s not a problem at the moment
thank you:)
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…… build a communication channel and try to get closer to him.
Just be yourself and be patient. If it is the right person then everything will happen
Be polite and cordial when you see them, don’t chase them, including calling, texting, IM, emails. Don’t beg or plead. If you can show them you can get on with life and be happy without them, that will boulster your attractiveness to them. It’s reverse psychology at its finest and your best chance.
He says we need time and that we’d probably end up getting back together in February. Are you kidding me?? he gets to decide when you break up and also when you will get together!!! he’s got someone else, don’t be so naive. What does he take you for?? you’re just gonna stand there and wait for him to decide when you’re back together!! C’mon, get out there and start dating again with other men !!
1) Smile and be approachable.
2) Don’t pressure him and beg to go somewhere. Just be matter-of-fact about it like you would treat a friend. Ask what he did over the weekend? Or something about his family. Keep the conversation like you would with a friend.
3) Use this time to spend with your girl friends you have been ignoring.
4) Show him that you aren’t clingy or needy by just moving on with your life whether he is in it or not.
5) Use the time to clean, volunteer at a charity, read a book, visit your grandparents, etc. In other words, do things that you never had time to do previously.
6) Smile. He’ll be back.
wait a minute, so he’s telling you that "you’ll PROBABLY get back in february".it sounds to me like he’s clearly SO SURE that you’ll be there waiting on him like a lost little puppy.Why does he get to decide when you can have him back?why is HE risking loosing YOU?… u wanna know why?Because he knows you love him so f*****Gmuch that you will do everything you can to keep him.And here you are asking how you can win him back.Why don’t you let him win you back.value yourself a little more and he will too.there’s no "method to winning anybody back"There’s just 3 words men hate and they are:low self steem.If he truly cares for you all you have to do is be you and he’ll come back to you.If not, then that’s his loss. The more you chase him the further he’ll run away
For now I think you should play it cool and not act too desperate. The more you beg and plead, the more he will shy away. You will be more attractive to him if you act mature and give him some space. After some time has passed, maybe you could write him a little note to share your feelings. If you’re not sure what to say, you can find some good suggestions at the following website. Good Luck!