How do you deal with an ex-girlfriend of your husband’s trying to break up your marriage?
My husband and I had a big argument and an old ex girlfriend of his would not stop bugging him until he told her what was wrong… Now she has damn near ruined everything how do you get rid of the ex?
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Honestly another person can not break up a relationship. It’s the people involved in the relationship and what they do in any given situation.
It’s not your job, it’s his. He needs to put you first. This woman definitely needs to be put in her place but he should be man enough and have the sack to tell her to leave him the hell alone. Don’t let your husband’s wussiness drag you into a cluster f**k.
she should not be involved. period. she was a part of his past and you are his present and future. if he intends to keep you in his life he needs to cut ties with her. it is disrespectful to you and your relationship.
So why is He still talking to her?!
How to get rid of an ex? Stop communicating with them! Block her number, block her email and just ignore her.
This is all up to your husband if he wants to stop it he can.
You don’t get rid of her, he does. He didn’t tell her anything that he didn’t want to. She can’t force him to speak with her or answer her questions. The biggest problem here is him, not her. What the hell is he even talking to her for?
You and your husband are giving this ex girlfriend way too much power…If you both stand united…she can’t succeed in breaking up your marriage….no matter what she does…but it sounds like your husband doesn’t have the balls to tell her to butt the hell out of your lives….
Its not about you getting rid of the ex. The question is why is he still dealing with her, and hes with you. Her problems are her own, to worry about. You are his wife, put your feet down, and give orders. Basically your husband needs to decide you or her. Shes a grown ass women, she should be able to handle her own. How the hell is she still in contact with him, or why is my question…Handle your business girl, cause if it was you, handling an ex-boyfriend he would not be having it.
Get your husband to stop talking to her. She is an ex for a reason. Remind him of those reasons.
First of all your husband has no business carrying on a friendship with his ex-girlfriend. You should have put a stop to that on day one.
Second you need to tell your husband that he either wants to make a go of his marriage and continue having you as his wife or he wants his ex-girlfriend to take your place, because he can’t have both of you.
His ex-girlfriend can only be a problem in your marriage, if you continue to allow him to be friends with her. She needs to go and you need to put your foot down.
It has nothing to do with her. If you had a wonderful, happy marriage, he’s truly in love with you, he won’t even look at her sexually or romantically.
It’s all about your relationship. Nothing about her.
Kick her ***!!!
you gotta deal with it as a couple…like tell him not to talk to her etc..BUT dont go after the ex urself…tahts what they want…so dont fall into that trap…
He has to be the one to do it. Even if he stopped talking to her because you asked him to, it\’s not really over. Exgirlfriends are very manipulative and will stop at nothing and stoop to the very lowest of levels to get a man back. My husbands exgirlfriend tried to do that. Long story short, we were having problems and she preyed on his vulnerability and weakened emotions to make her move. I got to him before she had the chance to take him beyond that point of no return, meaning affair. I would not have been able to forgive if it had gone there! Point being I fought back when I found out what she was trying to do and nipped it with his feelings for me. If he really loves you and you show him you really love him by fighting back,(not nagging but by telling him how you feel about him) he will choose you! We are working on our differences and have put her behind us now. If you make him stop, you\’ll never really know how he feels.