How do you get your ex back?
Please, serious answers only.
Basically, we were together for 2 years and a half.
He is a really good guy. Not a cheater, not a lier.
He really does love me.
So, it’s not a situation where I want him, but he doesn’t want me.
We’ve been broken up for 3 months now.
I’m suicidal.
Please, serious answers only.
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Same situation as you, cept Im not suicidal, just pretty much crazy. 2 1/2 years, been split up three months also. It gets really hard around new years. Dont listen to people who tell you to move on and shit, we both know it doesnt happen like that. If he really does love you then hell be back, as long as you keep him wondering what youre up to, dont let him see your pain. If it never happens eventually youll get distracted and forget about him for awhile, but hell always be there in the back of your mind. It may sound stupid and pointless, but the only thing that keeps me going is by just having faith that hell come back. Sometimes I dream about it at night, like where and when and how hell come back. Its better to believe hell come back than to cry about how hes gone. At least it holds you together. Be patient, it may take months, or years, and by then you might even be over it.
You don’t and move on. Find someone better and don’t be suicidal b/c you lost your first loved one. It happens to everyone.
If he "doesn’t want" you, then he doesn’t love you. Right? So I’d move on.
THERE’S PROBABLY A DAMN GOOD REASON HE DOESN’T WANT YOU….POSSIBLY BECAUSE YOU ASK STUPID QUESTIONS.
Hmm, where did being suicidal come into this picture?
F**k him in a way he cannot ignore. Then; if he doesn’t come back to you, move on.
First I think you need to focus on yourself and getting your problems solved, then you can think about getting back together with him.
Frist off no Guy is worth being suicidal over trust me. And to get him back just act like what he does does not bother you. But don’t be mean or a push over. Let him go if it’s ment to be it will be.
ummm, move on, its clear that he has.
but i hope you can feel better
so whats the problem.. if he loves you and you obviously love him then whats the deal??
Im in the same situation…. but a little different. I have a new boyfriend, but I can’t stop thinking about my ex. I’ve been wondering what to do forever. Just try to get close to him (as a friend), then tell him you still have feelings for him after a while and maybe he’ll feel the same.
xx
I was in the same situation, he was the first guy I loved, but after a while I realized that I had to move on because it was what would be better for me in the long run. Now I’m with an amazing guy who treats me right.
if he really does love you, and you know he doesn’t cheat–
then why aren’t you together?
cant you find out where he goes and you happen to show up?re-invent yourself.
maybe the color of your hair
so when he sees you he will have to say something.
These guys have already told you this, but I will repeat it ’cause I dont see an alternative answer, "He does not love you." And you might just be in love of the idea of being in love. Who knows, it might take longer than usual but u will find someone else.
Take care.
No man is worth suicide. You will find someone much better. I imagine you are very young and this may be hard for you to believe but it is the truth. Pick your head up and spend time with your friends and on you. Take that negative energy and put it in to everything you need to do in life and excel at it. Keep yourself very busy. Before you know it you will no longer be thinking of him and it will surprise you-but it will make you feel good. Take it day by day. Next thing you know you will be over it and he will be contacting you with his tail between his legs-and you can laugh at him, tell him NO WAY because you are over it, and continue with your wonderful life. Glass is always half full! Remember that!!
have sex with his best friend…
Well first of all, never think about suicide because ONE relationship ended. You have your whole life ahead of you and with that, hundreds of new guys. Don’t take your life because only one guy wasn’t "the one" or whatever. I think suicide is for the weak, so pull yourself together and think about a different solution, preferably a positive one. Next, to get back your ex: try talking to him, telling him how you feel about him. It’s rather hard to think of what to say to get him back when you haven’t really explained why the relationship ended in the first place….
If you are suicidal, you have bigger issues than getting your ex back. Please please go see a counselor and tell some people you care about that you are suicidal. Please take anti-depression medication and talk to people- talking really does help. I’m praying for you. Right now you need to focus on yourself and not on your ex. You owe yourself that.
look kid, first do not through up a silly answer, read all its ur only way out,
well, talk to him, sometimes lacking of comunication is the main factor when two guys get broken, so talk if that doesnt work make sure he understands that u love him
and u need to tell us more information about it, we just know that ur situation is quite uncomfortable but we dont kno the rest, after all u dont kon how does he get the broken arm if ya dont know how did it happen? right, anyways talk, if that doesnt works, u need God, he always resolves everything, try to kno the situation of him, or if he just want to see if u can wait for him, some guys are little shy
God help and bless ya
If you really want him back then you have to talk to him, communicate with him and see what it is the two of you can do together to fix your relationship.
Otherwise, don’t commit suicide. Please don’t waste yourself like that. Even if he doesn’t come back, there are other men in this world who would be happy to have you in their lives.
Its best to take stock in yourself, figure out who you are inside, find your heart and know it; and move on. You can find someone else if this doesn’t work out.
Honey, there is a reason why your relationship just did not work out. Some things are just not meant to be. It has nothing to do w/you not being good or not good, there is something, some reason why you broke up. I just feel you have not met the rite person for you yet. When you do, you’ll know he’s the one you were meant to be with. Get these suicidal tho’ts out of your mind. IF you need to talk to someone about it, look in the yellow pages in the phone book for suicide. Don’t blame yourself because things did not work out. Please just try your best to move on & go forward. KNOW you WILL meet just the rite one for you when you’re meant to. Try to put things in the past, stay away from things that would remind you of him & go forward w/your life. Give yourself time & know you’ll be OK…I DO wish you the best…:)
I’m sorry to hear about your break up. There is nothing worse than a broken heart. Fact is, there isn’t anything you can do to get him back…"you don’t have a vote". You said you were suicidal, If you truly are then you need to talk to somebody right away. WE LOVE YOU!!! I have felt the same way at times but there is nothing worth taking your life over. Time heals everything, and believe it or not, you will feel better as each day passes but ONLY if you get on with your life. In fact, if you want him back that’s the ONLY thing you can do that will work. Get on with your life and show him that you don’t need him. Go to this website and do what it says to do. You have to make him realize his loss and the BIG mistake he’s making!
http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/
Good luck and with or without your boyfriend you are going to be just fine and view this as a learning experience to make better choices in who you pick as a partner the next time.
Go Bless!