So I met this girl january of last year, and was immediately blown away by her. We hung out a few weekends and decided that we wanted to date. We dated for two weeks short of a year when she broke up with me. Its been about 8 months since we have been apart, yet she still talks to me and wants to know how my family is doing and such. I am not even close to being over her, though im not sure if she knows or not, and I’m afraid to tell her because i have told her a few times several months back in april then again in june and she just tells me "we can’t be together". So i havent’told her since then. She still keeps contact with me and we visit each other every few months and just usually get dinner/lunch and spend three or four hours together. The longest we spent together was in july we went to a tigers game together and then i spent the night at her house….sleeping on the couch(which is fine, not trying to sound like a was expecting anything) But after spending all day with her and her saying i could stay…i guess i was hopefull. Anyways, my mom recently asked me to invite her to my nephew(who she was "close" with when we were together)’s 3 year birthday party, so i did and my ex said that she would love to come if she could find the time. Turns out she had previous plans that weekend that she couldn’t get out of. So she called me that day while i was at the party and we talked for a bit and she said she was really sorry that she couldn’t make it because she had really wanted to come, and asked me if it would be ok if her and I took my nephew out some day and spent the day with him. So my first question is..why would a girl who doesnt’ want to be with me want to keep such close contact wiht my family and I(she live an hour and a half away)? And also, how do i let her know i can’t become just friends with her, without losing contact with her or straight up telling her i still love her so i can’t be? I don’t want her to know that i can’t seem to get over her, i want her to feel like im ok without her,she doesn’t like neediness(not that i feel I need her but she does tend to think that) how should i act around her since i want to see if we can have another chance? i prob should mention she says part of the reason she broke up with me is because we were starting to argue more than she liked, and it was "scaring her", and i was her first serious serious relationship. Any advice on how to do things that might help get her back would be much appreciated also, Thank you
what if we do hug, we always hug when i get there and when i leave and its more than a friendly hug it seems, i have girls who are friends that i hug, and the hugs she gives me are much more than that, but we havent’ held hands, or even come close to kissing


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