What does it mean when your ex boyfriend says this?
After cutting communication with an ex boyfriend for 6 months, I finally texted him telling him I never stopped loving him expecting him that he would feel the same way. Let me add the fact, that right now, he already has a new girlfriend and I found out the hard way that expressing your love to someone doesn’t guarantee they will feel the same way towards you and leave their current relationship. Basically, after telling him how I felt the whole time of not talking to him, I also asked him if there was still something there. He responded back saying "i don’t really know what i feel towards you. my question is, why did you wait so long to ask me this, why so many months." That crushed my heart once again. I told him the truth that finding out he had a girlfriend scared me and hurt me internally because of the choice I made to ignore him after I found out. I kept pushing it asking if his girlfriend knew about me, how it’s hard to not hear him say I love you anymore, basically falling into my comfort zone of asking him questions, expecting him to give me an answer expressing his feelings back to me.
Contacting him, from my own experience over and over again, basically made things REAL worse.
I found out the hard way because I just wanted to know for myself if he still loved me. I told him, sounding psychotic, that it would help me if he told me to leave him alone, and he said, please do. I responded you think I’m crazy huh and I never heard from him since.. that being the last text conversation we had. To top it off, a month later, I see him driving on the road (assuming his girlfriend is in the car) and I know he probably seen me also, but it’s as if we’re total strangers.
Do you think he cares at all? Should I just respect him saying please do, because I told him it would help me if he said that? I look so crazy because the last thing I texted him was you think im crazy huh..
It just felt so weird knowing we crossed paths on the road, knowing he seen me also..
I would love some inspirational advice.. what do you reccommend I do? Leave it alone?
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first let me commend you on what you did. it took a lot of courage. you probably shouldn’t have done it because it is wrong to try to break up other couples, regardless of the circumstances, but at least you spoke up about your love for him.
he responded, and i don’t think favorably.
matter of fact, i don’t think he would have another gf if he was so hung up on you. at least he wouldn’t if he were a sane healthy guy.
my advice, use this for closure.
You are the one that cut the communication in the first place. What was he supposed to do? Mope around about you for 6 months? He did what you should have done, he found someone else. You’re playing games… leave the guy alone.
well he caled you crazy never talk to that skunkbag again
read the last sentence you typed, that’s exactly what you should do. let it go. It’s over, how many times can a person say leave me alone. There is someone out there for everyone, guess what sweetie he is not the one for you. I hate the fact that you were so weak, you just built his ego. Wake up wipe your face and get your self together honey, it’s not the end of the world, you’ll get over it, in a few years you want even remember this part of your life. good luck and keep your head up.
ok for real you should never ignore someone for that long and then tell them you love them no to sound like an ass but i think your chances are over
ITS G0IN 2 BE HARD AT FIRST BUT IF ITS MEANT 2 BE THEN IT WILL C0ME BACK. BASED 0N WHAT HE SAID HE C0ULD BE HURT CUZ ITS BEEN S0 L0NG BEF0RE Y0U TALKED 2 HIM PR0BABLY MAKIN HIM THINK (Y0U) DIDNT CARE, S0 HE MIGHT 0F HAD 2 THINK 2 JUST M0VE 0N 0R MAYBE HE DID.ITS NEVER EASY SEEIN SUMONE U WERE WITH GETTIN 0VER Y0U 0R BEING WITH SUM0NE ELSE BUT SUMTIMES IT HAPPENS N U G0TTA THINK AB0UT THERES A REAS0N Y THEY DIDNT MAKE IT 2 UR FUTURE. AGEN, IF IT WAS MEANT 2 BE ITLL C0ME BAK. Y0ULL SEE 0VER TIME.TRY N0T 2 PRESS THA ISSUE N JUST LET THINGS HAPPEN. GUYS D0NT LIKE WEN U MIGT L0OK NEEDY.MAKE IT SEEM LIKE UR 0K N Y0ULL BE FINE IF Y0U M0VE 0N. TRY N0T 2 STRESS 2 MUCH
Yes, i think he has moved on with you, and so should you.
I’m sure a bastard like him, who did not bother abt you does not deserve you.
the only reason you got in contact with him again is because you were jealous at the fact that he moved on and found someone new. what did you expect when you ended it & "lost his number" for six months
you’re playing games, and honestly guys HATE IT when girls play games with them (had you been real about it, you two would have probably still been together or gotten back together). lesson learned for the next one … stop playing games, move on, and find someone new when you’re ready. chances are, you lost him for good – let it be.
I honestly respond to this from a guys perspective. and being an ex player bc i found the love of my life but tell you this with all honesty. and for all women to listen. we are just as weird and strange to figure out as you are just a little bit simple. He LOVES YOU. He THINKS OF YOU ALL THE TIME. but we are driven by our dicks. so as much as this may hurt if she is (which she is) spreading her legs he is going to fuck her just to do it. but it compares NOTHING to him sleeping with you. I GUARANTEE that afterward he thinks of YOU. yea she could be better what ever he is thinking of YOU! it eats at us. think of this…we dont ask you what age you lost your virginity. WHY? bc deep down even if you were an ex stripper (not saying you were just using the thought) we want to think that we were the first. every guy thinks that they can kick any guys ass. truth be told you put any of us guys in prison we will probably be bending over taking it in the ass or being traded for a pack of ramon noodles. but we put it out there like we dont care. so we go out when we break up and fuck any and everything there is, falling asleep thinking of you knowing what we had…but to our defense–and WOMEN LISTEN UP—keep the sex life up. i know i know things get routine, but shit we do buy flowers we do buy rings we do let the dogs out we do clean the house (though not as near as you would like) but we do do some shit. love us and we will love you back. but baby he does care and he does think about you all the time. when you drove by i guarantee that he thought about you the rest of the night. he loves you and love him. i know its hard to know that hes sleeping with someone else but trust me it means more to you than him
You should leave him alone, to me it seem he was trying to find away to break up with you for this new girlfriend of his. that also he saw you on the street and not even stop to say hi, like a total stranger.Then you should also be a total stranger too him to,and he’s the crazy one not you. So go out and have fun.
i think you should move on, im in the opposite case. my ex txted me hey in 4th months that we have no contact. idk what to do but stick my head up and be like wazzup’lol i got tht from a site. good luck^^ just move on, he’ll crawl bac 2 u, maybe.