Comments on: Single or remarried mothers, do you talk bad about your ex-husbands to your children? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Baby Gates http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-73110 Baby Gates Tue, 18 Jan 2011 03:28:00 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/#comment-73110 NO!!!! I'm a child of a divorce,and my mom has nothing good to say about my dad. I just wonder why she first fell in love with him. Everyone has something good about them. .-= Baby Gates´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.babygatesinches.com/hello-world">Baby Gates</a> =-. NO!!!! I’m a child of a divorce,and my mom has nothing good to say about my dad. I just wonder why she first fell in love with him. Everyone has something good about them.
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]]> By: unavailable. http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-20538 unavailable. Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:48:20 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/#comment-20538 i don't have an ex-husband, but my mom does: my father. to her credit, she never said anything bad about him to me. in fact, when they split she didn't even ask for child support-they came to a verbal agreement. sadly, she got taken advantage of and my "father" turned out to be no more than a sperm donor. he remarried after a year, and disappeared. seriously. his new wife did not want him to have anything to do with his "old" family, so he ran off to another state with her and didn't even leave my mom an address. my mom was forced to work long, double shifts at a 24 hour diner and we were on assistance for a while. i love my mom for that, and we're still very close. however, through all that crap, she never said anything bad about him. my mom remarried when i was 8, my step-dad and the only father i know and she is still married to him. my sperm donor eventually divorced his new wife and got another. he repeatedly tries to contact me, but i won't speak to him. he went over 22 years totally ignoring me and now wants to see my child. i won't let him. so, when people talk about women bad talking their spouses, i don't understand. I'm sure some do it, but my mother never did and i respect her for it. i don’t have an ex-husband, but my mom does: my father. to her credit, she never said anything bad about him to me. in fact, when they split she didn’t even ask for child support-they came to a verbal agreement. sadly, she got taken advantage of and my "father" turned out to be no more than a sperm donor. he remarried after a year, and disappeared. seriously. his new wife did not want him to have anything to do with his "old" family, so he ran off to another state with her and didn’t even leave my mom an address. my mom was forced to work long, double shifts at a 24 hour diner and we were on assistance for a while. i love my mom for that, and we’re still very close.
however, through all that crap, she never said anything bad about him. my mom remarried when i was 8, my step-dad and the only father i know and she is still married to him. my sperm donor eventually divorced his new wife and got another. he repeatedly tries to contact me, but i won’t speak to him. he went over 22 years totally ignoring me and now wants to see my child. i won’t let him.

so, when people talk about women bad talking their spouses, i don’t understand. I’m sure some do it, but my mother never did and i respect her for it.

]]> By: ProfessorC http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-20539 ProfessorC Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:48:20 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/#comment-20539 No. He wanted to be single after 25+ years. Since they were adults by then he had to explain it to them. I never said a word- except to tell them that even though he wanted to separate after a year he still had not filed. I had to- and he's a lawyer. But why is this for women only -- what about men who do that to the mothers of their children. Last week one guy referred to his ex-wife as the worst nightmare on earth. No. He wanted to be single after 25+ years. Since they were adults by then he had to explain it to them. I never said a word- except to tell them that even though he wanted to separate after a year he still had not filed. I had to- and he’s a lawyer.

But why is this for women only — what about men who do that to the mothers of their children. Last week one guy referred to his ex-wife as the worst nightmare on earth.

]]> By: cope_acetic@yahoo.com http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-20540 cope_acetic@yahoo.com Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:48:20 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/#comment-20540 Well my sons are grown men in their 20's, and were at the time of the divorce. Sometimes, I just can't help it--he really REALLY did me wrong!! They don't really like it, but they certainly understand my side since they saw me going through it. Well my sons are grown men in their 20′s, and were at the time of the divorce.
Sometimes, I just can’t help it–he really REALLY did me wrong!! They don’t really like it, but they certainly understand my side since they saw me going through it.

]]> By: vintner http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-20541 vintner Tue, 05 Jan 2010 04:48:20 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3329/single-or-remarried-mothers-do-you-talk-bad-about-your-ex-husbands-to-your-children/#comment-20541 I don't talk to my 13 year old daughter about her father except on the rare occasion he emails or sends something to her as a gift--maybe once every two years. When he does, I instruct her to write a thank you card to him. I would talk about him more, except (sorry to say) the only good thing about him and what he did to us is that he's now far away. He changed overnight when he became a father--it's like his heart was stolen when I wasn't looking. I won't go into details about that, but as a result there's really nothing I feel I can say about him to her since I don't want her to judge him until she's an adult. Then, she can confront him herself and find out what happened and maybe form some kind of relationship if that's what they both want. I don’t talk to my 13 year old daughter about her father except on the rare occasion he emails or sends something to her as a gift–maybe once every two years. When he does, I instruct her to write a thank you card to him.

I would talk about him more, except (sorry to say) the only good thing about him and what he did to us is that he’s now far away. He changed overnight when he became a father–it’s like his heart was stolen when I wasn’t looking. I won’t go into details about that, but as a result there’s really nothing I feel I can say about him to her since I don’t want her to judge him until she’s an adult. Then, she can confront him herself and find out what happened and maybe form some kind of relationship if that’s what they both want.

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