Met up with ex boyfriend from 20 years ago thru a friend?
My scenerio is we have a mutual friend,"Adam", that had NO idea knew my ex boyfriend from high school. "Dave" is the one I lost my virginity to in high school 20 years ago. Trust me I thought never again will I see Dave. Well, 3 weeks ago we met and just kind of pretended to not know each other in front of Adam. well, I was will to give my virginity to Dave but was not ready for marriage or long term commit. So, I went out with another boy in front of him so he would leave me. The problem is that now 20 years older and mature, I feel bad bout what I did to him. After that night, I gave him my number and since then have talked. Dave and I are single but I dont’ know whether to continue our friendship or whatever it is. He wants to go out but I have not yet. Also, he brings up the past alot about why? honestly, I don’t know why? what does a 17 year old know bout love back then. My problem is…do I let us try again? or is he out for revenge? I don’t know how I feel about him. and Adam?
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Maybe he brings up the past for a few reasons: 1. he has unresolved issues of hurt and he is trying to get past them by talking through them. 2. The past is the only thing you two have in common and maybe he is trying to establish a connection with you through the past. 3. The only thing he really knows about you is from the past..so, it is easy conversation to come up with. I would give it a chance, who knows what could happen.
well your decieving adam by lying and acting like you dont know dave. and you are thinking about other men behind his back. obviously you dont love him, so bye bye adam. now as for dave, why not give it another shot because its not like anything went wrong with him, I doubt hes out for revenge. so go out with him, he seems desperate for you.