i’m trying to get my ex boyfriend back? whats the best way?
about a month ago me and my boyfriend got into a really big fight, i ended up doing something i shouldn’t have done. i tried to help with something he wanted to do on his own, and the only way he thinks he can get closure is by breaking up with me. we had been going out for 2 and a half years and broke up while we were apart in a long distance relationship. he comes back in a week and i want to find a way to get him back, we were so good together and i can’t just not try.i have written him a letter about how i feel and all our good times that we have had and plan to give it to him next time i see him. any help would be good. thanks.
we broke up because i tried to help with a problem he had with one of my friends and he says that i helped to late. and h wanted to do it himself seeing that i had taken so long.
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Winning back an ex is not easy at all. It is a lot easier to generate feelings in someone, than it is to change their feelings. But if you take the right steps, and more importantly don’t do the wrong things, your chances increase dramatically.
If you want to win your ex boyfriend back try following these steps:
1.The first tip is to get your head straight. You need to get rid of these negative thoughts. You have to stop feeling sorry for yourself. You have to be willing to be strong.
Don’t let your emotion and of course your depression keep you down. You can’t achieve a goal, if you can’t keep your emotions in check and your mind clear. Negative thoughts are destructive behavior and you don’t want them..
2.Don’t annoy your ex boyfriend. Boys just don’t like it when girls become obsessive about them. Especially ex boyfriends. You may want to seek comfort by hearing his voice or seeing his face, but if you really want him back, you must back off for a while. Don’t continuously him, [spin]text message him, send emails to him, or go to his place or where he hangs out just to see him. You want to give him time to realize he may have made a mistake. He may begin to actually miss you and want to get back with you. If you blow it, you may have a tougher time getting your lovely ex back.
3.Become an object of desire. If you can, get some new makeup. more recommended things to get are new clothes and new hairstyle. If you’ve picked up a few pounds, start doing some exercises and try to eat healthy foods. When looking good on the outside, you’re going to start feeling better about yourself on the inside. If you will feel good on the inside you will be confident and happy. When you’re confident and happy, you will project this image to others. You will become an object of desire to men, this includes your ex boyfriend.
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ex’s are ex’s for a reason…. don’t open that sh!t back up it only causes problems
apologize
Honestly, I think you should just let him go. I don’t know what your reasons are for wanting him back, but if he wanted you back, he would make it happen. Give him the letter though. That may sway his opinion.
What did you do that shouldn’t have done?
It’s just going to result in a game…
but act like you don’t need him any more. Better yourself…IGNORE all calls-texts—Anything.
It depends what you did and If it’s bad I don’t think you’ll get him back, sorry ):
I agree. Your memory seems a little delusional, as is the case with most folk who say "i’m trying to get my ex boyfriend back? whats the best way?". Stay away…..
INTERCOURSE
when he break up with at any time, but especially when your all up his buisness, use this phrase- if a man dont want you, a man dont want you! sorry honey! if he wanted you, he wouldnt broke up with you, DUH!!
i have nothing to say but something that everyone says about this: there are plenty of fishes in the sea find one
Make him jealus!
why did you break up? if only cuz of being far apart from each other that means you are not meant for each other, your thing is not real
Offer him any kind of sex he wants then let him do it, that should do the trick.
2 words………..new guy
time heals it self, and never chase for a guy, if he wants you back he will come.
An ex is an ex for a reason. Move on. I will NEVER go back to any ex. Get my drift?
P.S. Letters are rediculous. Words mean absolutely nothing without actions to back them up.
we don’t have the wisdom to understand what the wise man had said, normally. I think it’s good for you know and want to do something before it’s too late, I suggest you treat this as a Break, don’t give him confession, or apology, it’s too heavy to guy, and give him calls once in awhile, as long as you both still in connection, things will turn out to be all right.