Its almost as if their heart and mind are seeking a conclusion to their love story…in other words…your husband and this girl are like a book that never finished…and by the sound of things there is an emotional attachment that runs deep…Even though he loves you..which I assume he does..because he married you…there is a part of him where these feelings for this other women live…and will continue to live until they play out…

Many people believe that marriage is the strongest bond that there is….not true…and many people find that out the hard way….

This type of high school love is the strongest that there is because it’s imprinted in the mind. Teens that are torn apart for whatever reason such as moving away, college, or dating someone else etc…They will continue to hold a spark for their high school sweetheart. Ten, twenty, thirty years later and beyond..through all of life’s situations such as children, divorce, military leave, etc….they will continue to look for each other…
Marriages often get destroyed and spouses and kids get tossed aside…because this love is blind to others..a couple that broke up in adolescence will do anything in their power to find a way to come together….and fate will often bring them together to finish what they started..and even if a spouse gives ultimatums, gets angry, etc…try to talk sense into their spouse…it does no good…your husband can’t change the way that he feels..its like telling the sun to stop rising in the morning..that girl has a piece of his heart..that you never had…and never will..no matter how hard you try.
The harshest reality of this whole situation…ALL you can do is have faith in your marriage..that the adult version of your husband loves you more than the teenage version of your husband loves this other girl…..

Yeah, I would worry. He’s definitely thinking about it. Then again, I’d probably worry about those *physical fights* you guys have.