What does my ex mean by taking it slow to get back together?
So basically after 6 weeks of not being together and me trying to get my ex back she’s now “given in” and says she wants me back but wants to “take things slow” … According to her this means that she does what she wants and i do what i want and not being together 24/7… this comes across to me that she just wants it casual as she doesn’t want to have me on her Facebook (apparently she doesn’t want to see what I’m up to even though i have nothing to hide) and she doesn’t want her friends or family to know until she’s ready to tell them.
This all comes across as a bit of a cop out to me and was wondering what everyone else thought? Every time I bring up something that I don’t like about the situation all I get is an arsey message saying “fine! let’s just leave it then” or something along those lines! I ended up buying her a present for Christmas back in august that cost me 300, I’m getting nothing because she “cant afford it”… i feel like I’m losing out!
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look sounds to me like maybe she is jst trying to figure out what she rlly wants in life and there is nothing wong with that…. and maybe she rlly cnt afford you a christmas persent you shouldnt take that offensive…. some people have a great heart but cant do wat they would rlly like to for others
Sounds kind of like she’s stringing you along. If you’re not happy with the situation you’re best off just to get out of it, in my opinion.
She is using you.
if you have to hide the relationship then it isnt worth having
tell her all or none, see what happens – be ready to be serious with the none though
lt means your ex isn’t done seeing other people yet
Ok she wants to act with how you guys acted before you were dating. Like friends that like each other. She doesn’t want sex right now.
yooo fuck that man. my ex tried telling me it was a break blah blah and then she slowly statred doin what your bitch is doing. if you really wanna end up getting more hurt than you are now, you go with her… if you wanna be happy and avoid another perilous fall into broken heart syndrom try again. but obviously she really doesnt want it and it really doesnt make her happy…. i mean look at your quetion. bro you need to move on and get yourself together man up be strong and say i dont need this or you. and go be happy. im jsut warning you. if you get with her.. when things go back downhill email me and ill help you cause then you didnt lsiten to me but went throguh what i did
you are…
it really seems as if she’s not sure that she wants to be back.
She wants to know she can use you for sex, money, whatever. But then when u see her with some other dude two days later she’ll be like "we’re just friends, i don’t know why u think otherwise." Ditch her man. u can do better without being mind f*u*c*k*e*d by this chick
Boy trust me you don’t want you ex back. You don’t wanna back track. Throw her over your shoulder like a back pack. And when she talk to you he don’t even tell the truth, heart so hard if you shoot at it it’s bullet proof. Crave her, love her, leave her with no trace, and if she say that she’ll go crazy let her catch a case.