Question about saving yourself for marriage?
Being a man of high moral standards and religious convictions, I saved myself for marriage. When I met my wife she said that she was doing the same. On our wedding night I realized that she was not fully intact. She claims to have busted her hymen while fishing for Opilio Crab in the Bering Sea. She says that she slipped on deck, I never even knew she was a crab fisherman. Is this plausible?
Please help with this as it has been bothering me for our last ten years of marriage.
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I can completely understand where you’re coming from since you are a man of the highest moral fiber and are supremely religious. I commend you on keeping it in your pants until your wedding night.
That being said, it IS almost 100% possible that your beloved wife is telling the truth about getting her cherry popped whilst trolling for the elusive Opilio Crab. Everyone knows the Opilio Crabs in the Bering Sea are very hostile, and have claws that are 2 feet long, thereby, it’s very likely that one of them busted her hymen with his freakishly large claws.
Oh, and don’t let the fact that your wife already had three kids before you got married confuse you. She was a virgin when you got married.
Are you for real?
It’s been ten years get over it already.
i doubt it…
Hymens break for all kinds of reasons, and some women aren’t even born with one. You shouldn’t care anyways, if she is your wife and you love her. You idiot.
damn i would have just said i broke it with a tampon.
no offense but your wife is not a very sharp thinker.
anyways, you married her, nothing to do about it now!
Get over it. She might be protecting you from some ugly truth. Just trust her and move on.
I’m guessing if it was that important, you would have divorced her for it by now. LET IT GO….I don’t see how explaining could be a reasonable answer because it makes no since, but ok. Let’s just say she’s not being truthful, then what. Are you going to leave her, of course not. so let it go……she was what she was and is what she is. can you except that?
Yes, I saw that episode. Wasn’t she on the Time Bandit?
It’s not real plausible, but there are dozens of other possible explanations. I’m actually amazed that this seems so important to you, after more than 10 years together. What possible difference could it make, especially now, after all this time?
Yeah I think I saw her on Deadliest Catch.
No way man she’s totally lying to you. Ask her questions about it to find out but even then she could have just done her research. but chances are she’s lying and after 10 years?? Jesus man why didn’t you say something about it 10 years ago? Why is it bothering you 10 years later so much that you had to ask this question on the Internet??
Does it really matter after all this time?
I would think it would be better if one of you knew what you were doing on your wedding night.
I have lots of deep dark secrets that I would never tell my husband and frankly he does not need to know because it has nothing to do with our relationship.
I have some oceanside land in Arizona to sell you, real cheap.
Unfortunately, your little wifey has lied to you, sorry.
Yes…. hymens can break for all sorts of reasons…. particularly in active women such as dancers, horseriders, gymnasts. Get over it.
I don’t know medically if it is possible, but I believe the same thing about myself. But really…. you have been married that long, get over it?
you’re kidding, ten years? the hyme can be broken in may wasy, if she used tampons, it can be broken, engagin in certain activities can break it…give it a rest
OMG – get over it already!
Either you love her and trust her enough after 10 years or you don’t – you are making a problem here where one doesn’t exist!
MOST women do not have their hymen intact by the time they are GROWN ADULTS due to the many other activities they have been involved in that have nothing to do with SEX. So let it GO for petes sake…..
Mr. High Moral Grounds – oh brother!
Mine was broke before I had sex. It happened when I fell, you probably aint being serious though
That is a doubtful story. When people aren’t being truthful, they tend to provide lots of details. That sounds like a pretty detailed story. Only a doctor can really tell if a hyman is intact. How can you be sure you she wasn’t? At any rate, it’s in the past. As a Christian, you have to forgive her and move on, even if she is lying.
Yes, this does seem a plausible story. Things like that happen all the time. Well unless she was experienced in bed… lol.
maybe she said that to you because she loves you a lot and didn’t want to lose you or she could have been telling the truth. you been married to her for 10 years and i think you have to ask her yourself otherwise you’ll always be wondering for the next 10 years and on.
high moral standards my azzzzzzzzzzz!!!
YES, the hymen can fracture from ridding a bike or even putting a tampon on, even sports or doing the splits so the answer is YES IT IS PLAUSIPLE AND ACTUALLY LIKELY.
LOL Yup, sounds like a real deal!
Yea, I herd that one before and eventually the truth came out and I wasn’t suppose to judge her for youthful indescreation (and habitual lieing)
Well I didn’t have too soon found out she was lieing about f’in the boss too.
Once a liar, always a liar.,
don’t hold it against her most people are abused sexually by someone in there lifetime weather they know it or not and most people have consented to some sexual play when they were younger
and some even when they were drunk
saving your for marriage is not always the best thing eather. you have not learnednd how pleasurerue your mate or even what makes her happy
after 10 years just keep loving her and you will be fine
as for me married 27 years through the good bad and ugly and 4 kids too
over all I still love my wife
It has been ten years for crying out loud! Get over it already! I envy you if that’s your biggest concern in a relationship.
Now, why in the world would you question your lovely wife, Sir? I would believe every word she says and never question her. *wink wink nudge nudge*
I think you are a jerk for not trusting her at her word. I also think you are a jerk for bogarting in on my question. Call me, I know how she really broke her cherry. Don’t let her nickname "Ole Gangbang" bother you, either.
as long as she shares her crabs with you, I don’t see the problem…
Trust me….believe her……lol