Girls it’s long but I need advice. Is she gone? How to get her back?

me and this girl i met at college had a thing for two months. but then we started fighting so she said we wouldnt talk the rest of the semester. so, to get over her i had sex with another girl when i was really drunk one night. the following weekend she came to me and told me im the last thing she thinks about before she sleeps and that she really likes me. she also told me that she was coming down the week before to tell me she wanted to be with me but didnt bc she heard me in the room with the other girl, but after what i did she doesnt trust me. she spent that night with me but we didnt have sex and we never have bc she’s not that kind of girl in my eyes.

to make it up to her i sent her flowers for xmas. before this we were talking on the phone for 2-3 hrs each night before sleeping. but after i sent the flowers i didnt get a thank you or anything. i had to see what was up. two days ago i called her and asked her what the deal was. she said that she told we were just friends and i didnt have to do that for her and she feels nervous talking to me because if she does she feels like i get the wrong impression. then i told her how i thought before that she didnt want to be with me bc she didnt trust me and she agreed.

did she not say thank you because she feels that if she does it will go further and into a possible relationship but she’s afraid or did she lose feelings for me?

we both live in states 900 miles away so i cant see her in person. we are on break for college. I’ll see her next weekend though. She also told me that she was never expecting me to send flowers and she was shocked when she got them.

after not talking to her for two nights, i called her at 1am and she sent the call to voicemail after the second ring. she’s never done that before.

im 19 and she is 18. both freshman in college and we live in the same dorm, so i see her just about everyday.
Just to clarify. We both go to the same university however we are on Xmas break and I’ll see her next week when school starts again. For now, we are back home in states that are 900 miles away.

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