How do I stop loving someone who only wants his bit of me? I always come crawling back to him and I need help.?
I was in a relationship with this man two years ago and since that I have been back and forths with him and he only uses me for his pleasure I just want to be out of this relationship once and for all. Please help I dont know what to do.
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Somehow you have to find strength within yourself. You have already realized that he is just using you for "his pleasure". Know that you are worth more than that!!!!! By dealing with this person you only blocking true path for what is really in store for you. It took a lot of Prayer and family support when i went through a similar situation (took me 2 years). Good Luck Keep in mind time heals all wounds
Just say NO. Find a hobby, or new friends to hang out with. You’re not in love…and he doesn’t really care about you. If he did you wouldn’t have to "go crawling back to him"…that, or you really just like the drama.
Talk to him face to face heart to heart and be serious abt your decision, no matter what stick to your own decision , but before you do that did you think it over and over again? finalize it before you face him okay !
hey, look you need to get rid of him i understand but how can you be so careless and irresponsible. i think you have to take some ones help on whom you can trust completely. tell them about this and you will surely find some way out. but still i think you need to take a lesson from this incident and respect yourself and love yourself. good luck
You obviously have issues with your confidence and self-esteem otherwise you wouldn’t let him use you like that. I’m not saying this to be cruel,it’s just I’ve been in your situation and I understand how you’re feeling. You need to cut all ties with him. Stop speaking to him,delete hs number,change yours if you have to. He’s just using you because he’s too pathetic and lazy to go out and find someone else and start all over. He knows how to push your buttons and get what he wants. You need to do this for yourself. I’m not saying it’s going to be easy but doing the right thing isn’t always the easiest thing to do. You will feel better for standing up to him and getting your life back because I’m guessing you’re at his beckon call at the moment. This will empower you and get you on the road back to getting your life back. It will be hard to break free from him but it has to be done,for your sake. If you need someone to talk to,you can IM me or drop me an email anytime,I’m always happy to listen. Good luck and best wishes for the future x
sorry about the language but tell him to fuck off and that you don’t want fuck all to do with him anymore, i hate blokes like that, they need to learn how to treat women.
just tell him straight!!!
and don’t go crawling back!!!
Hope that helps!
the first thing you need to do is get your self together.and stop putting your self down. you are a woman and not a dog.you understand.now this is what you are going to do:you are going to make your self look as pleasing to the eye. and you are going to stand your grown and you are going out just for your self and not for some one Else ok.you don’t need some like that.what you need is some one who will show some res pact and show you a good time.so get out of thing rut you are in and live a little there are men out there that are not pretending.who are looking for some thy need too.so don’t stop keep going and you will fine Mr right for you.you understand what I’m saying to you girl.will the best of luck to you.P.S I am a man and i am not gay.I just be-live that ever one should have the right to have the person thy wont in there lives.and not have half ass man in there life.will got to go your friend fred