The best way to tell him that I’m bi-sexual?
There is this guy that I really really like. He is 18 and in collage and I am 17 and in High school. He likes me back but doesn’t want to get in a relationship until we can see each other more often. I am Bi-Sexual and he doesn’t know it. I know that I’ll have to tell him eventually and it is mandatory that I tell him BEFORE we get into a relationship. But how do I go about it? I haven’t a clue on how to tell him. I’m really serious about this guy and he is a very accepting person and accepts people for who they are, but he probably doesn’t want to go out with a bi-sexual girl. Is there a way to tell him that will make it easier on the out come? I really don’t want to screw things up. If He and I where to get together, I’d really have something going for me.
He’s not one of those guys who is all about sex and girls kissing other girls. He is more like a serious relation ship. One of those things you hear about but never really see any more ya’ know?
I’m more for the guys than the girls because girls tend to tick me off and I am christian and do try to stay with in God’s word, but there is no way that I could honestly say that I’m completely straight. I love one girl, but she moved away. Yea, shes gone, but that doesn’t change the fact that I love her, so I’m still bi. If I where to merry a man that would mean that I was VERY serious and from that point on, yea, I would be straight, all for that man. He would be my only one.
And another thing, please don’t judge me, and ask me why am I bi. Ok? I don’t know why, it’s just who I am.
~~Edit~~ Please don’t treat this as a joke people. I’m really serious. And some of you are just being immature.
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If you say he accepts people for who they are, why do you then say that he probably doesn’t want to go out with a bi-sexual girl? If you’re bi-sexual, it means you can fall in love with anyone regardless of gender, not that you’re gonna date two people of opposite genders at the same time. I suppose he knows that so I don’t see why it would matter. You obviously aren’t the bi-sexual type that many girls claim to be nowadays just because they get some girl-on-girl action going to turn guys on. So it’s not like you’re gonna go kiss girls behind his back while in a relationship with him. As long as you give a serious and positive image of yourself, I don’t think he would take it the wrong way. Don’t tell him "Hey, how are you, oh btw, I’m bi-sexual" but don’t beat around the bush either. Just be honest about it. Tell him that you fall in love regardless of the gender and that you were once in love with a girl but now you found him and you want to be with him. At any rate, he should find it courageous. It’s all credit to you!
Have a threesome.
Tell him you are involved in the unhealthy lifestyle. Or you swing both ways on the door. Myself I would NEVER get involved with any person that went both ways.
ok.. do this,…go out to dinner, wait till the food comes, then say hey! ya know, i’m bi sexual, pass the salt…
When you know you guys are gonna squish the spider invite one of your girlfriends.. he won’t forget that ever.
well since you said that he is a ver accepting person and accepts people for who they are why are you asking this question? he will obviously accept you and he sounds understanding. i would just say to him that you have something you need to talk to him about in person i woudnt do it over the internet or the phone tell him in person and just tell him that you are bi but you really like him and would like to have a relationship with him and only him.
to be completely honest you shouldn’t tell him because if you are serious about him and you want to be with him and only him and you don’t wanna be with a girl and you aren’t head over heels for girls then don’t because as soon as you get serious with him there will be no one else in your life and you will be straight so my best guess is to forget that you were in love with a girl if you have strong feelings for him and just be straight. If it doesn’t work out you can tell him then but don’t just tell him that before you two get together because he may actually have to rethink the situation and he may decide that you could possibly fall for a girl and that he doesn’t want to take that chance. Im just telling you because i have a friend who is bi and she turned straight because she couldn’t live without the guy. So just take it one step at a time.
I would say he wouldnt care(it doesnt matter to me i actually like it) have a threesome but i doubt you would want to do that but u coolud tell him im only half straight or 3 quarters straight lol