How do I cope after a break-up?
Me and my gf just broke up after 12 days 
I need some goods tips to help get myself over it.
Thanks a million
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Obviously you are young and don’t have that much experience in a relationship, just forget about her and seek someone else, it is evident that the relationship between the two of you did not work out, you also have to remember that you are still young in life and that there are plenty of girls out there to choose from, but what you need to do is seek that "Special" young lady out, I,m certain that there is a young lady out there seeking for someone "Special" like yourself. I was in my mid to late 30′s when I found that "Special Someone" and was in my Early 40′s when I said the words "I do" to that "Special someone" (My Wife) but listen you need to seek her out even if it takes you a long time to do so
im not trying t be mean , but if you only dated for twelve days , it probably wasn’t that serious .
but i would just go out with the dudes and have a good time , it will take things off your mind . go out and have a good time.
Just find your friends and play!
If you really upset and always thinking of her, the best way is to make yourself busy.. on your work, friends, family, anything…
Really worse case or most people will do is find another gf right away!!
Cheer up and have fun!
Same thing happened to me, but the other way around. My BF broke up with me because he \"didn\’t like me anymore\" and got another GF the same day. He broke up with me on Christmas Eve. That sucked.
I\’m still finding it hard to get over him, he\’s avoiding me because he feels \"guilty\" or something. I find it hard to speak to his new girlfriend, too, and she was a close friend of mine so its a shame.
Eating chocolate helps. I don\’t exactly know why, but chocolate makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside.
Also, don\’t be afraid to let your feelings out…cry if you have to. If you dont want anyone to see you, go to your bedroom and do it there. (Punching your pillow also helps, if you happen to feel angry at the person..(for dumping you for someone else).
Try not to talk to the person too much. If you see them on a daily basis, like at work or school, be polite, dont speak of the breakup, but dont be rude. Not speaking to the person helps because it helps to stop the longing, of wanting them back.Don\’t worry yourself with things like \"are they talking about me behind my back? I wonder if they\’ve kissed their new gf/bf yet… Maybe they still like me?\"
It just brings you false hope.
My ex wasn\’t too nice after the breakup, he kept telling me how much he \"Loved\" his new gf, when he knew that hurt me.
He also got one of his friends (also one of my friends, i thought) to play a trick on me, telling me he still liked me, getting my hopes up, only to let me down, again.
He lied to me several times, and that hurt, but i\’m slowly getting over it. I don\’t think he LIKES hurting me, but perhaps thats his way to get over guilt or something.
Try to find someone really special, who likes you the same way you like them. Dont rush into things, but dont be shy. Test the relationship, and if its to your liking, keep on going with it.
Remember, NEVER lie to someone, say you love them when you don\’t. It just makes breakups that much worse. And don\’t look too eager, or too shy. Don\’t sit next to other girls with your arms around them, even if they\’re your cousin, or sister. Don\’t let other girls hug you, or flirt with you, even if its a joke.
And NEVER keep the relationship a secret when she wants to tell someone. It lets other girls thing your single, and then they\’ll flirt with you and stuff. Keeping relationships a secret (unless you both want to) It may her think you are embarrassed about her, or may make her doubt your liking for her. Ask her out to movies and get her something for Christmas, her birthday and other events, and don\’t feel upset if she doesn\’t get you anything. Girls are much more expectant, and sensitive to these things than boys. Kiss her. Make you\’re first kiss special. Dont tell her if her breath stinks, but make suttle hints about it. If it gets bad, then tell her GENTLY.
Woah. I should write a book.
Sorry for the overload of info. Hope it helps.
Best of luck.