me & my ex girlfriend again?
we are no longer together i have not talked to her we where together for 7 years but still stayed friends. could not do it any more. she still wants to be friends & hang out with my mom. thats ok with me. but i told my mom just leave me out of it. because my ex loves me but not in love with me. it hurt to much to just be freinds.
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yea you are right man
stop being friend with her for a while after time maybe you will accept it
but not today nor tomorrow
good luck
whats your question?
time..give it time….
ya never know..you may get used to the fact that she is just a real person that is a better friend than a GF…keep busy doing your regular daily things, activities and dating , etc
try to aviod her.
i think you should tell her to leave me alon
well then your ex really needs to get a life outside of yours.
You need to explain to her that coming over and talking to your mom affects you in a negative way and that she is going to have to find a way of keeping in touch without running you out of your comfort zone.
Its okay to still be friends with your ex’s mom, but there is always the question if it is being done out of spite.
good luck!
i think u should not leave her bec friends are very rare in life and u should not leave her like that may be she may change her mind and may be she will be ur lover may she only come and propose who know’s but still u should not leave a friend
I think you’re doing what’s best for you and that’s a really good thing. It’s awesome you’re respecting the relationship between your mom and her.
Don’t feel bad or guilty about not wanting to be friends with her. It could be something that comes in time or something that won’t happen at all. Now that you two aren’t together, your priorities should be focused on you and what you’re feeling. If she really does love you she’ll respect that and want what’s best for you. I think you’re doing the right thing.
I sincerely hope that it gets easier for you as time goes on. It will never go away but it does lessen. Just keep your chin up and take one day at a time.
On another note: Don’t rebound! The worst thing to do is to jump from one relationship directly into another. You’re a different person now and it’ll take some time to get to know the new you. I’m not saying that this is going to or is even likely to happen, but you never know.
Hope all goes well. All the best!
i know what you mean im going through the same crap it would hurt to see her going out with other boys and you still be friends
You seem to be doing all the right things to get yourself out of your ex’s way and it seems she’s trying every way to stay in touch with your life. If you really, I mean REALLY feel that it’s no longer good for you to be in touch with her or with her life then talk to your mom about that too. Let her know that you’d rather not have her be in the ‘loop’ about your life and that you don’t want to know about her either. That you feel it would be best if she could respect that boundary so that you could start the healing process and moving on. It sucks that after so long the relationship didn’t work out.
My heart goes out to you…Good luck…
you should understand it’s not a 1 side relationship if she hasn’t got the same thinking as you. I know its sad but you have to face the truth. I am very appreciate the way she does as she’s still very close to your mum and your separation don’t affect their relationship. Forget about her and find another girl ok.