Comments on: How do I fall back in love with OCD husband? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Wayhay http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-73277 Wayhay Sun, 23 Jan 2011 10:38:26 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/#comment-73277 I understand exactly what you are going through. Your situation is almost exactly the same as mine. I'm torn between not wanting to break up the home but feeling unable to live with the stress of living with OCD. Even though what is in his head must be horrible OCD effects everybody in the house. It is also learned behaviour (my husbands father is also severely afflicted) and im concerned that my children may pick up these traits. Also living with someone who explodes frequently is frightening. Like yours he is great company and a devoted dad but he controls me like a father and i have to support him like a mother. How can i possibly love him like a wife in the bedroom? I'm giving it one more go for my children's and his sake but handled correctly divorce need not destroy children. Good luck (someone is on your side) x I understand exactly what you are going through. Your situation is almost exactly the same as mine. I’m torn between not wanting to break up the home but feeling unable to live with the stress of living with OCD. Even though what is in his head must be horrible OCD effects everybody in the house. It is also learned behaviour (my husbands father is also severely afflicted) and im concerned that my children may pick up these traits. Also living with someone who explodes frequently is frightening. Like yours he is great company and a devoted dad but he controls me like a father and i have to support him like a mother. How can i possibly love him like a wife in the bedroom? I’m giving it one more go for my children’s and his sake but handled correctly divorce need not destroy children. Good luck (someone is on your side) x

]]> By: Aiping Wang http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-68947 Aiping Wang Fri, 18 Jun 2010 09:11:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/#comment-68947 You realize that you made a hasty decision in going for a divorce and no matter how haywire the past happenings of your past married life were, you feel the love you have for your ex still runs deep. And well, you have all reason and right to \'rise from the debris\' and work \'towards rebuilding\' to get your ex-husband, as we explore some ways to go about it. You realize that you made a hasty decision in going for a divorce and no matter how haywire the past happenings of your past married life were, you feel the love you have for your ex still runs deep. And well, you have all reason and right to \’rise from the debris\’ and work \’towards rebuilding\’ to get your ex-husband, as we explore some ways to go about it.

]]> By: jaded http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-22655 jaded Wed, 13 Jan 2010 11:17:38 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/#comment-22655 try to research dietary ways of helping control this. i would start with more protein. steaks, burgers, salads, good vegetables, lots of fish and chicken. eliminate snacks of all kinds, soda, alcohol. especially sweets of all kinds, get rid of them. also steady physical movement, i think that helps too. walking, swimming, ect. another guess is that the children help trigger the condition because of the responsibility and stress it brings. that is perhaps the reason for the need for reassurance. yes, it is a betrayal to find out the guy you bought was not the model advertised. but so are some of your attitudes. two kids. remember that. i dont care what you do with your husband, but you have two kids and after you have kids it is not really about you anymore, it is what is best for them. try to research dietary ways of helping control this. i would start with more protein. steaks, burgers, salads, good vegetables, lots of fish and chicken. eliminate snacks of all kinds, soda, alcohol. especially sweets of all kinds, get rid of them.

also steady physical movement, i think that helps too. walking, swimming, ect.

another guess is that the children help trigger the condition because of the responsibility and stress it brings. that is perhaps the reason for the need for reassurance.

yes, it is a betrayal to find out the guy you bought was not the model advertised. but so are some of your attitudes.

two kids. remember that. i dont care what you do with your husband, but you have two kids and after you have kids it is not really about you anymore, it is what is best for them.

]]> By: Mean Carleen http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/comment-page-1/#comment-22656 Mean Carleen Wed, 13 Jan 2010 11:17:38 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3590/how-do-i-fall-back-in-love-with-ocd-husband/#comment-22656 Your in therapy right? ask the therapist!! Your in therapy right? ask the therapist!!

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