i love her how can i get her to be my girlfriend again missher so much?
Ok me and my girlfriend (both 22) are friends, we been friends since we were 6yr or 7yr (but I was not around all that time).
I am a musician and she is in her last year of uni
we started hanging out again last year as a set up by friends we have every thing in common it was very hard to find things that we both didn’t like doing (we both had never had a GF/BF before) this was a first for both of us. The more we hung out together the closer we got we would be up until 4am just talking watching movies and stuff (she was my first kiss too she made the First move I did not want to take advantage of her). Then we started dating in December hanging out 5x a week at movies, at home sleepovers all the time when she came home from work. We would tell each other everything that we were thinking about (worried or not) because we are both over thinkers.
very 4 weeks or so we would be up til 3am talking about where we are going and what’s going to happen when we move(she is going over sea when she gets money to teach). and I alway said that if it’s too hard for her that we can just go back to being friends and after she told me what she was thinking. She would realize she was over thinking and she was fine saying that she was very happy where things are and that she does want to change it.
then in February I had to go on a confronts for 5 day and I said why don’t you come down on the last to days and we can go site seeing and have a nice time in a relaxing hotel room, room service the works. (No sex no expectations it was just so I could spend some time with her) before she goes back to uni.
So we went and had a great time then late that night at about 2am she started to cry sing that she does not want to hurt me or loose me.
But she was worried about what we are going to do when she starts uni and gets busy or when she goes over sea, (she wants to travel and meet new people for a while to experience life)
And I said that she will never loose me and that we can work around that. And just do small things like a movie night or some thing and she was fine.
But she still would bring it up for the next 3 weeks then a week later I txt her asking what she was doing she was really sick (with a cold). later she txt back saying that she is too busy for anyone right now she wanted to take a break for a while and that she wanted to go back to being friends. She didn’t want to lead on or have me think she’s avoiding.
But it has been 8 weeks since we went on the break but we have met up a few time for dinner and movie night with friends and she seemed fine since then she seemed a bit nervous around me at first butso I am still talking to her and going out when we have time.
I really miss her I mean I always miss her ever before the break.
Now I don’t no what to do I really care about her more than she knows and I don’t want to loose her. How can I get her back (not now later after her study’s) without losing that connection we had. How can I talk to her about becuz we have not talked about the break at all.
I love her, I was really happy with her, and I still am when I’m around her I just don’t want to loose her to someone else and I no i might sound clingy but I’m not like that around her
Please help
Serious answers please and thankyou so so much for reading the whole thing I know it was long 
I was hurt when she said she wanted to be on a break without talking to me about it.
But isn’t something that is worth fighting for suppose to hurt a little?
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awww sounds sweet ask her outz again say will you be my girlfriend again? (;