how can i save my relationship?
i’m 22 years old and am dating an amazing guy. i have never been this serious with anyone – we’re talking about marriage. but over the course of our relationship i have morphed into the bitchy girlfriend, and am constantly on his case about everything. i’m a very analytical person by nature, and don’t have the highest self-esteem, so i tend to take things personally, for example if he does not want to hang out, i automatically assume it was something that i did. he told me last night, after a fight, that he was miserable because i’m always yelling at him. i know the obvious thing would be to stop yelling, but it’s almost as if i can’t control it. i’m horribly embarassed about my behavior and just want to relax. i have a feeling, the way to fix it is to fix myself, but i’m not sure how to do that. i don’t know, maybe you guys have some advice, or know of some really good self help books out there, because i’m feeling a little crazy. i’m a very good natured person, i just freak on my man
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well, i understand what you are talking about. I think every girl can relate, but at the same time, that’s not an excuse to be that way. you get way more from any guy when you put no pressure on him then when you do. Did you ever think to that the reason your man doesn’t want to spend time with you at ties is cause you are so mean to him? In order to change, you have to realize what you are risking and if he’s really someone that you want to be with in the future, you have to discipline yourself to be more pleasant to be around. or else you’ll regret and always wonder what things would’ve been like had you been different to him.
maybe you need some you time.
being in a serious relationship that will soon lead into a marriage can be scary, emotional && even stressful.
just have a day for you to relax && think if you really want to be in a commitment with him && try to change your ways.
You should really read this free E-book containing 97 steps to a happy relationship. highly recommended!