Comments on: I’m pregnant w/my ex’s baby, is he looking to get back together (no lectures)? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Linda http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/comment-page-1/#comment-78908 Linda Thu, 09 Jun 2011 16:04:49 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/#comment-78908 I am in almost the same situation as you, my boyfriend broke up with me a month and 1/2 ago, 2 weeks after the break up I found out I was pregnant. We had been together for 3 years and this was actually a planned pregnancy, we had been trying for a baby for 8 months. But he does not want to get back with me and I feel he has already moved on with other girls. He is excited about the baby and said he'd be there for me, he has not really shown much of that though-he'll go for days without contacting me or even asking how I am feeling. He has been too preoccupied with another female. I still love him and miss him and wish that we were back together since the break up was out of nowhere, I am still in shock. If I was in your position-where my ex wanted to work on things and change for the better, I would be jumping for joy. I'm not saying just take him back because of the baby but also because you still want to be with him and if you still love him. I would love it if my baby was born into a whole complete family knowing it's parents loved eachother. I am in almost the same situation as you, my boyfriend broke up with me a month and 1/2 ago, 2 weeks after the break up I found out I was pregnant. We had been together for 3 years and this was actually a planned pregnancy, we had been trying for a baby for 8 months. But he does not want to get back with me and I feel he has already moved on with other girls. He is excited about the baby and said he’d be there for me, he has not really shown much of that though-he’ll go for days without contacting me or even asking how I am feeling. He has been too preoccupied with another female. I still love him and miss him and wish that we were back together since the break up was out of nowhere, I am still in shock. If I was in your position-where my ex wanted to work on things and change for the better, I would be jumping for joy. I’m not saying just take him back because of the baby but also because you still want to be with him and if you still love him. I would love it if my baby was born into a whole complete family knowing it’s parents loved eachother.

]]> By: Kelly@Children Night Lights http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/comment-page-1/#comment-69057 Kelly@Children Night Lights Sun, 20 Jun 2010 21:12:41 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/#comment-69057 Goodness you could be setting yourself up for heart ache on so many different levels. I know you know that you have a baby to think about now. Maybe he blew his chance! Personally I don\'t give them out very often. There is no reason why you cannot build a family unit with someone else. There are plenty of great men out there who are looking for this as well. .-= Kelly@Children Night Lights´s last blog ..<a href="http://www.childrensnightlights.com/the-emily-mini-crib-vs-the-davinci-kalani-which-one-is-the-best/">The Emily Mini Crib Vs The DaVinci Kalani Which One Is The Best?</a> =-. Goodness you could be setting yourself up for heart ache on so many different levels. I know you know that you have a baby to think about now. Maybe he blew his chance! Personally I don\’t give them out very often. There is no reason why you cannot build a family unit with someone else. There are plenty of great men out there who are looking for this as well.
.-= Kelly@Children Night Lights´s last blog ..The Emily Mini Crib Vs The DaVinci Kalani Which One Is The Best? =-.

]]> By: pkirmips http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/comment-page-1/#comment-23578 pkirmips Sat, 16 Jan 2010 19:32:41 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/#comment-23578 I am in my late 20s with a new baby, but am married. I can speak a little to this. It sounds like he is conflicted, but really trying to figure out the best route. Now "best" here is vague. He's probably trying to decide what's best for him AND what's best for the upcoming baby. It is probably difficult for him to realize, "If I marry this woman with my child, my life is going to drastically change." And it will change. He will no longer have the freedom to do what he wants now. I think if he does approach you with marriage, you both need to have an honest and direct conversation about how life is going to be way different (but oh so rewarding) if you choose to get married. Regardless, I think maintaining a family unit is the right way to go for the little one. Good luck to you. I am in my late 20s with a new baby, but am married. I can speak a little to this.

It sounds like he is conflicted, but really trying to figure out the best route. Now "best" here is vague. He’s probably trying to decide what’s best for him AND what’s best for the upcoming baby. It is probably difficult for him to realize, "If I marry this woman with my child, my life is going to drastically change." And it will change. He will no longer have the freedom to do what he wants now. I think if he does approach you with marriage, you both need to have an honest and direct conversation about how life is going to be way different (but oh so rewarding) if you choose to get married. Regardless, I think maintaining a family unit is the right way to go for the little one. Good luck to you.

]]> By: I Have a Gorgeous Son! http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/comment-page-1/#comment-23577 I Have a Gorgeous Son! Sat, 16 Jan 2010 19:32:40 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3688/im-pregnant-wmy-exs-baby-is-he-looking-to-get-back-together-no-lectures/#comment-23577 The guy sat down and thought what he really wants, he decided he wants a family with a woman he loves and she carries his baby, why is it too difficult for you to accept it? wondering if you are the one whos not ready and affraid to settle down? The guy sat down and thought what he really wants, he decided he wants a family with a woman he loves and she carries his baby, why is it too difficult for you to accept it?

wondering if you are the one whos not ready and affraid to settle down?

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