Best way to get my EX back?
My ex of 7 years and with two kids left me a month ago. He snapped out when he found out I was going out and said he would move away if he heard about me going out, then said he was sorry for saying that to me and being mean. I usually call him and tell him how I feel, and he told me I was miserable with him, which I wasnt. What is the best way to get him BACK!!!! and make him start thinking and wondering about me again?? I’m desperate for advice!
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If he is getting mad just because you go out then he is way too controlling and you don’t need him.
Sounds like he may have been the one not happy. Just be 100% open and honest the way you feel…give him some time. If within 1-2 months he is not wanting to get back, then move on.
Really sounds like there is more that he is not telling you about his feelings.
He doesnt seem stable. You shouldnt try to force someone like that into your life
Another good reason to get married.
Is he paying child support?
Spousal support. He better be.
He wanted to tell you you were miserable , so he could leave with a free conscience.
Does he call or take his kids anywhere? If so, next time you see him, be all nice and tell him you miss him. Listen to his answer. You may not hear what you want, but hear it.
The best thing you can do is carry on with your life. Raise your children. Exercise and eat well. Get a hobby.
If he starts wondering, he will come around. If he doesn’t, good riddance.
It sounds to me like he has left you, never to return. I’m sorry.
You cannot make someone love you or miss you, but you can and must make him responsible for his children.
A beautiful life is the best revenge.
BTW, where were you going out? Why would he be so mad about it? Other things are going on here?
You don;t.
If someone has made their mind up then thats it.
Sounds like both of you need to grow up. Best to get some help as well.
Fiund ways of showing him Respect.
And say a prayer.
Why don’t you figure out why he left you in the first place. You sound a little flakey. Perhaps he wants a grown-up woman.
And your kids do too. They don’t need a mom who’s out dating.
Just leave him alone. If he left it’s on him. The best way to get back is let him be. If you chase after him then he knows he can act like that whenever he wants and get away with it. Why would you want him back if he is willing to leave you because you went out and had a little fun with some friends?
Maturity level………….. Think about it.
It may not be what you want to hear, but the best thing to do is probably to try to move on… take some time yourself, vent, wallow, cry if you want, but don’t spend your life chasing after this guy, certainly don’t change yourself to make him like you, your happiness is important too and if you aren’t true to yourself you’ll never be happy. Move on honey, they’re other fish in the sea.
Go out? By yourself or with friends? Hey it looks like this guy is trying to control you and you don’t need that in your life. Hope you think about it and not go back with him.
Anyway I just want the best for you….good luck:)
Obviously you have some weird dynamics going on that we are not privy to. You say your ‘ex’ of 7 years and two kids left you a month ago. This person is not an ‘ex’ then.
So you were going out. OK, how is that a ‘punishable offense’? That is, IF you two are ‘ex’, then what is the problem.
And you have kids. You both sound loony.
Grow up and take care of your kids. The rest will take care of itself.
Love him. Simple as that, and as hard as that. People think love is a feeling you get when you get chocolate and diamonds on Valentines day. But that’s just Hollywood brainwashing. Love is a verb. It’s the product of your thoughts and actions that show that love. If you loved your husband, you would respect him as if he loved you, he should respect you.
I don’t know the details but what do you mean "going out?" Going out with other men? Going out to party instead of watching the kids? Your actions always speak louder than words. Don’t think about saying or doing some calculated things to try to make him come back. Instead focus on thinking about how things got to where they are (it takes two to tango), and about what has to be done to make it right.
Only you know what truly happened and what needs to happen to make the relationship whole again.
Why would you want him back? If it’s because of the 7yrs and two kid, then that’s not good enough.
Those aren’t reasons to continue a relationship. Let it go.
Don’t be desperate.
… P.S. Do you REALLY want advice, or do you just want someone to tell you what you want to hear? I ask, because ppl in your situation usually already have their minds made up and already know what they’re going to do. Should you get back with him? NO.
Do I think you will try to get back with him? Yes.
I don’t want to hurt your feelings, but I want you to be realistic about your situation.
wow you got one part right you are DESPERATE! if you got someone thats treating you like that and you still want to be with them then its kind of sad.. this dude doesnt sound like hes too stable or even that he cares about you too much.
did you ever think that he was just looking for a reason to get out of the relationship? there should be no reason that he went off like that..the best thing to do is ask him flat out what he wants and if he doesnt want you anymore then just end it instead of putting yourself and the kids through that bull
You sound like an idiot a typical battered wife who just goes back for more and he still controls you and loves every moment off it look at ya he has left ya and tells you why he left ya and you still chase him and insist on getting him back,He said you make him miserable you made me miserable reading your crap,Go out and get a life he has moved on,As for him getting pissed at ya for going out,Why should he get pissed at ya for going out your no longer together,He just gets pissed off to make you think that he still cares for ya and wants ya and you fall for it when he says im sorry,You then chase him and call him begging him to take you back and he loves that attention the man is an a/hole and your an a/hole for falling into his traps,Just move on!!!!
have sex with his father