I need extreme help getting my ex gf back asap!!!! Thanks and 10 points for best answer!!!! Its long though…?
Ok so I am 18 and my ex gf is 17. She broke up with me the day after Thanksgiving (a little over a month ago). I deserved to be dumped b/c I treated her like complete sh*t. I mainly did this b/c I was hurting so bad inside. I went to the Doctor December 14th (without anyone asking me to get help, so that right there shows you I am wanting to change!) and he diagnosed me with a severe case of clinical depression. I am currently getting my meds under control and start therapy next week.
I contacted my ex today for the first time in nearly 3 weeks and she said that she loves me, she misses me, but she doesnt want to get hurt again. She said it will be MONTHS (yes, she said months!) before we can even become SEMI-friends again. I couldnt believe this! I had admitted to lying to her in the past today, I have also been manipulative towards her, and I always got mad at her over little things, but I have apologized hundreds of times for not getting help sooner; but other than this crap, our near year long relationship was perfect. She said that its caused so much stress on both our families (my bro and her half sister are married…its really not weird or anything so i dont want anyone talking crap), and I will agree that it has. Her parents disagree with her dating me b/c they think we just arent right for each other. SO WHAT CAN I SAY TO HER TO GET HER TO GIVE ME A CHANCE TO SHOW I HAVE CHANGED!?!
**Oh and I dont want to wait to long to get a relationship going again b/c in 7 months we will be going to different colleges that are about 30 minutes apart. BUT dont tell me to just move on b/c I am in absolute love with this girl and I just cant do that! Thanks a lot everyone! 
I have also been very suicidal lately and she knows about this and i think i hurt her more (not intentionally) by telling her this but i went and saw my psychiatrist and am getting it worked out now.
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First of all, I applaud you for taking the step in getting help!!! That was a brave and smart decision. Onto the question, we tend to forget that we can’t change a person’s feelings towards us or our relationship wit them. It sounds like she has been really hurt, and despite your efforts in trying to make things right, she is just not ready to jump back into the relationship. Broken hearts take time to heal. Just continue to show her your improvements, invite her to some of your therapy sessions (if you are comfortable with that), and just give her the time she needs to heal. Love is a very tricky emotion, it can make you feel so many different emotions at one time and really make things confusing. Let her know you need her, even if only her friendship for right now.
Continue to do what you are doing and continue to show her that you are willing to do whatever it takes to change for her. Actions sometimes speak volumes louder than words! What’s meant to be will be. Let it find its way. I wish you the best of luck.
just keep gently in touch with her from arms length and work on your own healing at this time. In a few months fell her out again. Different colleges 30 minutes apart is not really that big a separation.
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