What should I do? EX-bf and I had sex twice this week. Want to get back together now. How should I go about it?
It all started not this past Saturday, but the one before. My ex-bf who I havent talked to in three months when we broke up. Then, saturday I accidently texted him and he replied then asked if i wanted to go hang out with them. then we had sex. Then, two nights ago we had sex again. I really miss him and I want to get back together with him. What should I do?
We haven’t texted since the last time we had sex. I just texted him to tell him I took Plan B and he never replied. He didnt reply to his best guy friend yesterday either though.
Also, the first time Saturday, we only texted each other after that to ask about stuff we left at the person’s house we had sex at. And those convos were only three messages.
I want to text him again, but I dont want to be annoying
What should I do? I really want to get back together?
He lost his virginity to me, and i to him this summer. He hasnt had sex with anyone else but me, even after we broke up.
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Whether he wants to admit it or not, you will always have a special connection with the person that you lose your virginity to.
But for girls, it is different, it’s much stronger. For guys, yes there’s still a connection, but they are still going to try and get all the goodies without all of the work. So he’s pretty much still going to want to "get some" without having to actually date you. Therefore, since you are sleeping with him and letting him get away with that, he’s just going to go along with it. Every man’s dream.
If you want to get back together with him, don’t try to do it through sex. Then again, on the other hand, you can use sex against him (as all women do) and tell him that he’s not getting any unless you’re in a relationship.
Honey, don’t be that girl. The one that will still give themselves up for someone they’re not dating. You’re so much better than that! Believe me.
So, in summary; let him know that you’re not going to let him have it that easy anymore. Let him know how you feel. And don’t give up on the possibility of a relationship just yet!
Note: Not everything has a happy ending.
But you’re the one who decides if it was for the best.
The best of luck!
Yeah, the old I have not had sex with anyone else since… trick. Listen, if you want to get back with you bf, than stop having sex with him before your together. you already giving him the panties and than he not even talking to you after that. Get smarter, keep your legs closed and see if he is a man or just stil trying to stick and move.
Having sex is not having a relationship. Has the event that broke you up changed? If not you just want the easy comfort zone. Wait and see what happens if you wait…. You must have other things to do in your life.
hmm tough one.. since he lost his verginity to you then im thinking he must be quite attached to you.. i dont know though cause hes a boy.. and boys have smaller hearts than girls! they dont think about things too much, go with the flow and like to keep things simple.. but there is a chance he is attached to you because of it, maybe you should tell him how you feel, somehting deep but dont say too much so not to scare him lol but just sayy something like, your important to me, you made me happy and i want it back, dont you? and every now and then send him a text out of the blue, something that u know will make him think or smile and hopefully he will remember what he usedto have with you and start to miss it over time ? hope i helpd, i had a similar problem with my boyfriend,, were back together now <3
good luck