Comments on: My husband is leaving me for his ex-wife from 20 years ago-I am dying inside-please help? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Jen http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/comment-page-1/#comment-70869 Jen Sat, 02 Oct 2010 22:44:28 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/#comment-70869 I am sorry to hear that. I have a similar situation like you. I have been with my husband for 10 years, and we have two beautiful children. Recently, I found out that he left everything what he had to his late-wife and his brothers. It means that he even left his own children out. The worse thing is that he told me that I had mental problem. I am thinking of leaving him. I will lose my job ( he is my current boss), but I just do not want to be deceived anymore. Life is tough, and I have no idea what I and my children would face tomorrow. But I believe somehow everything would be okay. So, I truly wish that God could watch up for you, and everything would be better for you and your son. Jen I am sorry to hear that. I have a similar situation like you. I have been with my husband for 10 years, and we have two beautiful children. Recently, I found out that he left everything what he had to his late-wife and his brothers. It means that he even left his own children out. The worse thing is that he told me that I had mental problem.

I am thinking of leaving him. I will lose my job ( he is my current boss), but I just do not want to be deceived anymore.

Life is tough, and I have no idea what I and my children would face tomorrow. But I believe somehow everything would be okay. So, I truly wish that God could watch up for you, and everything would be better for you and your son.

Jen

]]> By: lynne@gchq vacancies http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/comment-page-1/#comment-67425 lynne@gchq vacancies Thu, 27 May 2010 11:31:35 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/#comment-67425 What a rat. Divorce him and get as much as you can. You sound like a lovely woman, find someone who deserves you because it\'s not him. What a rat. Divorce him and get as much as you can. You sound like a lovely woman, find someone who deserves you because it\’s not him.

]]> By: Willa http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24325 Willa Mon, 18 Jan 2010 16:10:06 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/#comment-24325 I know how rough this is for you, but you are not without options. Get another lawyer. That one has a defeatist attitude and won't work to your best end. You may not get much in the way of spousal support for a 5 year marriage but you should get at least two and a half years of support to help you get back in the work force and he should be required to assume all marital debt, given that he is employed and you are not. Hang on to your house as best you can until the market improves. It's still an asset even if it's not marketable as much at the moment. Cite abandonment in your response to the divorce. Don't make it easy for him by simply signing whatever is put before you. Play this game tough. You may be feeling defeated and hurt, but play tough. You can come out of this okay. I know how rough this is for you, but you are not without options. Get another lawyer. That one has a defeatist attitude and won’t work to your best end. You may not get much in the way of spousal support for a 5 year marriage but you should get at least two and a half years of support to help you get back in the work force and he should be required to assume all marital debt, given that he is employed and you are not. Hang on to your house as best you can until the market improves. It’s still an asset even if it’s not marketable as much at the moment. Cite abandonment in your response to the divorce. Don’t make it easy for him by simply signing whatever is put before you. Play this game tough. You may be feeling defeated and hurt, but play tough. You can come out of this okay.

]]> By: i_ate_sponge_bob http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24326 i_ate_sponge_bob Mon, 18 Jan 2010 16:10:06 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/#comment-24326 I'd go after this guy for everything he has. As for the house, perhaps sign it over to your son so your ex can't have any claim to it. Get yourself some counseling and work on building a life on your own. I’d go after this guy for everything he has.

As for the house, perhaps sign it over to your son so your ex can’t have any claim to it.

Get yourself some counseling and work on building a life on your own.

]]> By: donotbuyakia http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24327 donotbuyakia Mon, 18 Jan 2010 16:10:06 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3764/my-husband-is-leaving-me-for-his-ex-wife-from-20-years-ago-i-am-dying-inside-please-help/#comment-24327 It's hard, but think about it. Would you really want a man who picks a woman based on money? Remove the emotions from the equation and start dealing with facts only. Get a job. There are dental office jobs available, but if not in your area, then do what ever you have to do to earn a paycheck. Go on Craigslist and do daily events. Hook up with McDonalds. Anything. Apply for ever dime of state assistance available. Take control of your life. It’s hard, but think about it. Would you really want a man who picks a woman based on money? Remove the emotions from the equation and start dealing with facts only. Get a job. There are dental office jobs available, but if not in your area, then do what ever you have to do to earn a paycheck. Go on Craigslist and do daily events. Hook up with McDonalds. Anything. Apply for ever dime of state assistance available. Take control of your life.

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