Comments on: PLEASE HELP! need advise with my ex bf’s gifts to me…Should I give it back to him or what? HELP!? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: eva http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24594 eva Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:36:26 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/#comment-24594 Gifts are given out of the heart. I would definately not return them. If just having them around will bring back memories and you dont want to keep them, then sell them for some extra cash (garage sale, ebay, etc...) But make sure that it is over for good b/c if you guys get back together by chance then you will be upset that you got rid of everything. Gifts are given out of the heart. I would definately not return them. If just having them around will bring back memories and you dont want to keep them, then sell them for some extra cash (garage sale, ebay, etc…) But make sure that it is over for good b/c if you guys get back together by chance then you will be upset that you got rid of everything.

]]> By: aprilmacrose http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24595 aprilmacrose Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:36:26 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/#comment-24595 I know you said that you've accepted it's over, but you seem to be concerned on hurting his feelings way too much. He's hurt your feelings so why should you care about his? If what your asking is, if you sending his gifts back will make him stop and think or even contact you, well no one can know this as we don't know your ex-boyfriend. If your intention is to give him a little pain by returning his stuff, go ahead and do it. You know it will be final, once you send those back there will be no other reason to contact him, I think you are scared of not getting a reaction once you return the gifts and then not having a reason to contact him again. If you really truly want to move on for now, you really need to send back the items and do as you intend..........move on. Time is too short to spend in negative thought, spend it positively thinking about your future. Good Luck, I know things are bad right now, but unless you begin to move on, you'll never get there. I know you said that you’ve accepted it’s over, but you seem to be concerned on hurting his feelings way too much. He’s hurt your feelings so why should you care about his?

If what your asking is, if you sending his gifts back will make him stop and think or even contact you, well no one can know this as we don’t know your ex-boyfriend. If your intention is to give him a little pain by returning his stuff, go ahead and do it. You know it will be final, once you send those back there will be no other reason to contact him, I think you are scared of not getting a reaction once you return the gifts and then not having a reason to contact him again.

If you really truly want to move on for now, you really need to send back the items and do as you intend……….move on. Time is too short to spend in negative thought, spend it positively thinking about your future.

Good Luck, I know things are bad right now, but unless you begin to move on, you’ll never get there.

]]> By: creator http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24596 creator Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:36:26 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/#comment-24596 you should go talk to him and then decide but i know that if he really love you his heart is going to crush by telling him that you dont want his presents anymore so dont think only in yourself maybe he wanna get back together the only thing he needed was some free time i dont know!!! you should go talk to him and then decide but i know that if he really love you his heart is going to crush by telling him that you dont want his presents anymore so dont think only in yourself maybe he wanna get back together the only thing he needed was some free time i dont know!!!

]]> By: ella http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24584 ella Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:36:25 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/#comment-24584 Look i didn't read it i agree it's too long but honey just keep them Look i didn’t read it i agree it’s too long but honey just keep them

]]> By: LLOYD DOBLER http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/comment-page-1/#comment-24585 LLOYD DOBLER Tue, 19 Jan 2010 09:36:25 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3789/please-help-need-advise-with-my-ex-bfs-gifts-to-me-should-i-give-it-back-to-him-or-what-help/#comment-24585 TOO LONG! TOO LONG!

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