i was in love with this guy that i was dating for 8 1/2 months. now i’m afraid i lost him. i want him back
The guy i was / we were in love and were gonna marry eachother when both of us turned 18. we had little fights and argued over the little things but loved eachother so much. he decided to take a break for 2 months so he could concentrate on getting back into shape for summer. we agreed to get back after 2 months were up. now i’m afraid i lost him. its been 2 days since we agreed to and no phone calls or any contact of any sort. now i’m afraid hes in love with another girl because he said he’s interested in her and doesn’t wanna get back. it hurt so much coming from the only person i truly loved w/ my heart and trusted and came to. i miss him so much and want him back. but then 2 of my friends like me and wanna go out w/ me and every1 said i should go for the 1st guy but i don’t know what to do. i feel so empty and wanna give up on everything. i lost more confidence in myself than i already did. plus this 1 guy won’t get off my ass or take the hint im not interested in him. what do i do
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things like this happen when your young .but if he said that he is interested in another girl and it was his idea to break up ,there’s really nothing you can do.the best thing for you to do is start to focus on yourself and if you have friends spend time with them,because while your crying your eyes out over him,he’s not thinking about you.
Your situation seems hard, but in reality it is simple. Don´t wait around for him to contact you. Call him or find a way to meet him in person and just ask him straight out if you still have a chance with him or not. As for the other two guys, explain that you are not able to fall in love yet while you are still thinking of this guy, but that you can be friends for the meanwhile and see how it develops. The one that is patient enough to spend time with you and help you heal your broken heart will either be Mr. Right or at least become your "brother" and friend.
You have a few choices here
1. You could sit around pining for a guy that will never come back(I don’t recommend it)
2. You could call, email, text this guy to death hoping he’ll answer(he probably won’t and I don’t recommend that, either)
3. You could get on with your life and forget about him(I DO recommend that).
As far as getting married at 18, that’s never a good idea. Your best chances of a lasting marriage will be when you’ve waited until about age 25 to get married.
well you should have gotten the message the first time he was done and therefore its taken you longer. now just get moving you have tings to do and will forget him and get on with someone else. there are more guys around and have such nice personalaities you need to get moving. talk later
okay girl if he really cares he will contact you just give the man some time give it a week if he does not contact you dont worry okay there are plenty of other fish in the sea you are probally a beautifull person in and out and if he cant see that he is not right for you
1st off dnt listen to ur friends dnt try 2 talk 2 sum1 ur not interested n, call ur boyfriend & tell him u cant be without him and it hurts 2 question ur self what he’s doing if you guys arent talkin,thats crazy u dnt have 2 take a break 2 work out, hell work out with him, follow your heart and love him and kiss+hug him 2 death win u c him