Comments on: Ex-girlfriend pregnant with my child and doesn’t want anything to do with me.? http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/ Sat, 11 Feb 2012 14:09:15 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: fezile somraba http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-77340 fezile somraba Mon, 23 May 2011 04:44:36 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/#comment-77340 I knw hw u feel,my ex-grlfrind also doesn't want me 2 c my 4months baby.I hv tried 2 convince her.I accept the responsibilty,do I hv a right 2 take her 2 court.I'm even suspicious that the baby is not mine.bcz there is no valid reason why she is doin this 2 me.help me out pls I knw hw u feel,my ex-grlfrind also doesn’t want me 2 c my 4months baby.I hv tried 2 convince her.I accept the responsibilty,do I hv a right 2 take her 2 court.I’m even suspicious that the baby is not mine.bcz there is no valid reason why she is doin this 2 me.help me out pls

]]> By: Simon Jones http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-47007 Simon Jones Mon, 22 Mar 2010 13:44:02 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/#comment-47007 I really feel for you. My pregnant ex, we got together in Nov 09. Things were perfect. She really made my heart go wow!!!! Long story short, after Christmas we found out she was pregnant. I a little shocked, was over the moon. The girl I love, got Engaged to on Christmas day. I think she was happy to, but looking back for the wrong reasons. I think she wanted the Baby to keep her 5 year old Daughter happy. I did everything for her. One day after a silly row in Jan she cut me out completly. She removed my tattoo of my name and the next thing I know her ex bf was around hers playing happy families sorting her car for mot etc. I should of walked then. But I persisted. We tried to make a go of it around the 3 month scan which I went with her. She asked me to come off facebook which I did. This she said was for her own insecurities. Next thing her little girl tells me in front of her she had been on facebook.She lied and said she had not. Truth came out and she had, with a smug grin on her face. Then she e mailed me to say she was moving in to a bigger house for her, her little one and Baby. Her ex helped her move. She now has accused me of stalking her. I am so upset as I did the best for her and her Daughter. I sent her a few e mails, but so did she. I have finally walked. The last e mail said I will have supervised contact with the Baby and now she says I wil be contacted by the CSA. I still to this day think what the???? I have put it down to the ex possibly getting back with her. Who knows, my fault for getting her pregnant I know, but I really thought I had found true love. Now I am the bad Guy when all I did was my best and more. I have finally given up after waiting 2 months for her to feel normal and see my point. She shut me out. She has moved, I have no contact address or phone number for her. Sent her an e mail asking if she wanted some money, now she ignores me. It does hurt so bad. Lesson to all, dont fall in love so quick, there really is a thin line between love and hate. I tried and tried to take things slow accomodate her every need. Please dont think your on your on people, and I am sure it can only get easier!!!! I really feel for you. My pregnant ex, we got together in Nov 09. Things were perfect. She really made my heart go wow!!!! Long story short, after Christmas we found out she was pregnant. I a little shocked, was over the moon. The girl I love, got Engaged to on Christmas day. I think she was happy to, but looking back for the wrong reasons. I think she wanted the Baby to keep her 5 year old Daughter happy. I did everything for her. One day after a silly row in Jan she cut me out completly.

She removed my tattoo of my name and the next thing I know her ex bf was around hers playing happy families sorting her car for mot etc. I should of walked then. But I persisted. We tried to make a go of it around the 3 month scan which I went with her. She asked me to come off facebook which I did. This she said was for her own insecurities. Next thing her little girl tells me in front of her she had been on facebook.She lied and said she had not.

Truth came out and she had, with a smug grin on her face. Then she e mailed me to say she was moving in to a bigger house for her, her little one and Baby. Her ex helped her move. She now has accused me of stalking her.

I am so upset as I did the best for her and her Daughter. I sent her a few e mails, but so did she. I have finally walked. The last e mail said I will have supervised contact with the Baby and now she says I wil be contacted by the CSA.

I still to this day think what the???? I have put it down to the ex possibly getting back with her. Who knows, my fault for getting her pregnant I know, but I really thought I had found true love. Now I am the bad Guy when all I did was my best and more. I have finally given up after waiting 2 months for her to feel normal and see my point. She shut me out.

She has moved, I have no contact address or phone number for her. Sent her an e mail asking if she wanted some money, now she ignores me. It does hurt so bad. Lesson to all, dont fall in love so quick, there really is a thin line between love and hate. I tried and tried to take things slow accomodate her every need. Please dont think your on your on people, and I am sure it can only get easier!!!!

]]> By: Alyssa's mommy http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-25133 Alyssa's mommy Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:17:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/#comment-25133 Pregnant women are allowed to move where ever they want. If you want to see the baby regularly you will need to follow her. You may still have feelings for her, but she may never return them again. That is her choice. If don't want to move, that's fine. You can always just fly out to see your kid twice a year or something. Pregnant women are allowed to move where ever they want. If you want to see the baby regularly you will need to follow her. You may still have feelings for her, but she may never return them again. That is her choice.

If don’t want to move, that’s fine. You can always just fly out to see your kid twice a year or something.

]]> By: Maries http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-25134 Maries Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:17:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/#comment-25134 It could be pregnancy hormones making her so difficult to figure out. She doesn't sound very mature or reasonable. What a shame the two of you weren't more careful before bringing an innocent child into your unhealthy relationship. Sorry to be judgemental - hard not to. But for some real advice - do what you can to smooth things over with her. Don't waste time trying to figure it out. Try to think one step ahead and do whatever considerate things you can think of for her. Bring or send her food she likes, things you know she needs, etc. If she continues to say she doesn't want you around you can try and talk to her about what's good for the baby. It is not good for the baby not to have a father in his/her life, regardless of how she feels about you. It is terribly selfish of her to move far away and deny the baby that, even if she has the legal right to do it. If you can't get her to see reason, then do whatever you have to to make sure that the baby grows up knowing you love him and want to be a part of his life. If you don't, he'll never get over it. It won't matter what she did to keep you away or how difficult it would have been to see him. He'll always have in his mind that his father abandoned him. So do what you have to do to make sure the child knows you are there. You may need to take her to court to do it, but do it anyway. You do have rights in that department. It could be pregnancy hormones making her so difficult to figure out. She doesn’t sound very mature or reasonable. What a shame the two of you weren’t more careful before bringing an innocent child into your unhealthy relationship. Sorry to be judgemental – hard not to. But for some real advice – do what you can to smooth things over with her. Don’t waste time trying to figure it out. Try to think one step ahead and do whatever considerate things you can think of for her. Bring or send her food she likes, things you know she needs, etc. If she continues to say she doesn’t want you around you can try and talk to her about what’s good for the baby. It is not good for the baby not to have a father in his/her life, regardless of how she feels about you. It is terribly selfish of her to move far away and deny the baby that, even if she has the legal right to do it. If you can’t get her to see reason, then do whatever you have to to make sure that the baby grows up knowing you love him and want to be a part of his life. If you don’t, he’ll never get over it. It won’t matter what she did to keep you away or how difficult it would have been to see him. He’ll always have in his mind that his father abandoned him. So do what you have to do to make sure the child knows you are there. You may need to take her to court to do it, but do it anyway. You do have rights in that department.

]]> By: Kristen http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/comment-page-1/#comment-25135 Kristen Wed, 20 Jan 2010 17:17:13 +0000 http://howdoigetmyexboyfriendback.org/3838/ex-girlfriend-pregnant-with-my-child-and-doesnt-want-anything-to-do-with-me/#comment-25135 ok first of all dont listen to that first answer.she was being a *****.second of all that was a long msg and i wasnt going to read it.ppl dont like to read long msgs. but anyways.i would definatly keep trying to make it work.when ur pregnant u r moody ALL the time.dont take it personal.and being alone isn't helping at all.so what i would do is i would pick up and leave where ur at immediatly to be with her if u love her and try to make it work.i wouldn't worry about the job situation right now.go online and put in as many apps u can and then in the mean time work on ur relationship.and work really really hard at it.with relationships they are not picture perfect.everyone has their ups and downs so take that into consideration.and also when i want attention im mean to my fionce.lol i know it sounds stupid but he gives it to me and were fine again.maybe she just wants someone to cuddle with and talk to and be her best friend.ya know? and ur not a bad person it sounds like u love her alot so go be with her!! ok first of all dont listen to that first answer.she was being a *****.second of all that was a long msg and i wasnt going to read it.ppl dont like to read long msgs. but anyways.i would definatly keep trying to make it work.when ur pregnant u r moody ALL the time.dont take it personal.and being alone isn’t helping at all.so what i would do is i would pick up and leave where ur at immediatly to be with her if u love her and try to make it work.i wouldn’t worry about the job situation right now.go online and put in as many apps u can and then in the mean time work on ur relationship.and work really really hard at it.with relationships they are not picture perfect.everyone has their ups and downs so take that into consideration.and also when i want attention im mean to my fionce.lol i know it sounds stupid but he gives it to me and were fine again.maybe she just wants someone to cuddle with and talk to and be her best friend.ya know? and ur not a bad person it sounds like u love her alot so go be with her!!

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