What are the tell-tale signs that my ex wants to get back with me?
Looking back, I must’ve ignored those signs. We broke up when we were 17 (thanks to a Dear John letter). Last Feb 14 was supossed to be her 26th birthday. But she commited suicide. Eversince the break-up, she’s been apologizing to me, but I never gave her the time of day. What are some of those signs I must’ve missed?
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First off, I am really sorry to hear about her death. But her committing suicide was NOT your fault… I know that you’re thinking that you could have done something… but in actuality, you couldn’t. You guys broke up at 17… that was 9 years ago… If you think that’s the reason she decided to kill herself, then your all wrong. I’m sure something was going on in her life that was messing with her head… maybe family… maybe friends… maybe new boyfriends… But it sure was NOT you. I think she’s been trying to apologize to you because she was miserable in her life at that point, she could only reminisce about what you used to have with her… her only recollection of happiness. Please… If you are having doubts or you feel guilty… you need to seek help. The signs you are looking for are all in your head. You did not know she was going to kill herself. And that was her choice… her decision…. not yours. Please, get help if you need to… Talk to you parents… brothers/sisters… They will know…
There may have been none, so don’t blame yourself. There are many cases of suicides where friends and family never saw it coming. It’s very sad the way people can bottle things up. Then it’s only a matter of time being they implode, and everybody handles this differently. Her’s was just one of the worst scenarios. A very sad thing, indeed, I am sorry you have to face this.
i think committing suicide is the big sign there. sorry for the loss. she’s in a better place. and she’s happy. it wasn’t your fault. really.
People dont usually commit suicide over a break-up. There must have been other things going on in her life so don’t blame yourself.
FIRST OFF REALIZING MOST ALL OF THE PAST WITH HIM WAS THE LADIES BLAME, NOT ALL HIS, guys need upfront honesty, and to be the most important part of your life, sounds like your breathing was more important to you then the relationship was, and FEMALES ARE ALL THE BLAMES TO SELF JUDGE MALES AHEAD OF TIME.
APPOLIGIZING IS A MUST IF HE REALLY CARES STILL.