How can I recover from a bad relationship?
A few months ago, I broke off a long relationship with my ex because he was treating me like crap. I no longer have any feelings for him, but now that I’ve moved on, I’m scared to get back into the dating scene. There is a guy I want to ask out, and I’m not afraid of rejection, I’m afraid he’ll end up treating me like garbage if it does turn into a lasting relationship. What can I do to prevent myself from being forever scared to date because of one bad apple?
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Take some time off to recover until your ready to be in the dating scene again.Obviously,your still hurt from the past relationship,but if your ready choose wisely.
don’t rush into a relationship, first be friends and get to know him. While developing your friendship, if he wants to become more than friends, let him know that your scrared he will treat you like your ex and just take things slow. After a while you will know him well enough and can determine if he is a good match. If he does want to stick around the entire time, then that tells you a lot right there.
well i say just go for it. that other guy probably made a mistake by dumping you anyways. Just because one guy was an ass doesn’t mean that all other men will be too. as long as your confident and going for what ever guy that you like and not hiding in a corner being scared to date then you’ll most likely get a perfect relationship.
Just go for it.
Not all guys are the same. I had a boyfriend that did the same thing. I was single along time before I dated because I didn’t want treated the same again. When I did start dating again…I found out there are better guys out there. I actually have been dating this guy for over 2 years and he treats me like a princess. Just don’t settle for less than you deserve.
you just have to keep reminding yourself that not all guys are bad. an you will never kno if a guy is a "bad apple" unless you try.
Go from apples to plums.
You should take precaution from the beginning of any relationship. Think before you take an action and not thinking after taking the action. Emotions really needed to be controlled. And the outer beauty is not the only scale of judgment. Look deep inside. What kind of heart that person has. That is the most important thing.