Step-daughter ex girlfriend??????
Me and my ex were together for 4 1/2 years and we recently broke up because we just grew apart and a few other things that happened. I still want to be a part of my stepdaughter’s life because i’ve been there for her since the day she was born. I raised her as my own and i’m the only dad she’s ever known. Her real dad is in and out of jail and wants nothing to do with either one of them. well after we broke up she moved back into her moms and won’t let me visit or call my stepdaughter at all. I’m usually outgoing and happy all the time but ever since she left all i can think about is my lil girl. How could i convince her that i can still help out and be a part of her life? sorry this is so long i tried to explain my situation the best i could . i posted this earlier in parenting but didn’t get alot of answers
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I do think its great that you see her like a daughter… It is admirable but I’m not sure there is anything you can do. Maybe after a while things will settle and she’ll realize how important it is, not for you, but for her daughter to have you in her life. I really hope it works out for you. Good luck.
well i know that if i were in your position i would most definatly keep in contact with mother and daughter, maybe work out something with her mom about taking her to lunch or even just soccer practice of school, etc. take her and her friend to a movie, but dont get to involved to fast, cuz u my up set her mother then u have the chance of being permanitly cut off
I think its great that you want to see her!My brother takes care of his step-daughter.If she does not want you to see her shes a Jerk
unless she allows you to have visitation you don’t have much of a leg to stand on.
you could try to get a lawyer and fight for visitation but if she is not willing…… could be expensive with nothing to show for it.
That’s a pity because you can be a positive influence to the little girl. Love and support are essential to building up her positive disposition.
Despite who you were to this child, this is not your child at the end of the day and her mum wants to move on with her life. There will be eventually another man in her life, which you have to allow to happen, who will take your place and you do not have a choice, you’ve got to accept it.I do not think that a next guy she meets would be happy with her ex-boyfriend to look after her child.Get on with your life too.
Another thing is, and this is a comment to all people who answered your question – what positive influence would this have on this child? What if another man appears? What will this child think? It will be confused and i think that it would just damage it with a presence of too many men in this child’s and its mum’s life.