Comments on: Step-daughter ex girlfriend??????

By: MAGS

MAGS — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 16:12:33 +0000

Another thing is, and this is a comment to all people who answered your question – what positive influence would this have on this child? What if another man appears? What will this child think? It will be confused and i think that it would just damage it with a presence of too many men in this child’s and its mum’s life.

By: mags

mags — Sat, 27 Mar 2010 16:08:25 +0000

Despite who you were to this child, this is not your child at the end of the day and her mum wants to move on with her life. There will be eventually another man in her life, which you have to allow to happen, who will take your place and you do not have a choice, you’ve got to accept it.I do not think that a next guy she meets would be happy with her ex-boyfriend to look after her child.Get on with your life too.

By: Blending Family

Blending Family — Mon, 25 Jan 2010 06:16:36 +0000

That’s a pity because you can be a positive influence to the little girl. Love and support are essential to building up her positive disposition.

By: firephoenixfire

firephoenixfire — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 07:34:24 +0000

I do think its great that you see her like a daughter… It is admirable but I’m not sure there is anything you can do. Maybe after a while things will settle and she’ll realize how important it is, not for you, but for her daughter to have you in her life. I really hope it works out for you. Good luck.

By: Elizabeth H

Elizabeth H — Sat, 23 Jan 2010 07:34:24 +0000

well i know that if i were in your position i would most definatly keep in contact with mother and daughter, maybe work out something with her mom about taking her to lunch or even just soccer practice of school, etc. take her and her friend to a movie, but dont get to involved to fast, cuz u my up set her mother then u have the chance of being permanitly cut off