How did you cope with a break-up during pregnancy?
My boyfriend just left me I am 5 months pregnant. I would like to hear from other women that have been through this and had their babies by now to know how things worked out.
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when i was 5 months me and my bf almost broke up as well. i should have broken up with him, im not sure why i didnt. he was being very mean, abusive, controlling and careless. He even though an ash tray at ny 5 month pregnant belly
. Hes gotten much better, but it still stays in my mind every day. your bf may grow up and realize hes a loser and he needs you and the baby, but if not, you know that hes just a immature little boy. you need a man, not a boy. remember any boy can make a baby, but it takes a man to raise one. 2 of my best fiends were pregnant and both of their bf’s left them, they were very sad and depressed at first but they very quickly saw it was the best for them and their baby. not thir exes are trying to get them back and be in the babys life, and theyarent letting them.lol everything will work out, atleats you saw the real him, everything happens for a reason. good luck hun 
You don’t need him. Hes immature obviously. You will be fine without him.
My bf beat me until he got tired of having sex with me and found out I was preg he ain’t want nothing to do with me. I found support of good friends but lost my baby
What a creep. Forget him and remember you probably have plenty of friends and family that would help you out now. Seriously though, I think men who dump pregnant girlfriends or wives are messed up in the head.
This never happened to me, but you will be fine. I know this must be difficult for you, but you can always look on the bright side. You’re probly better off without him if he’d leave a pregnant women.
Use this situation to learn from and make a better life for yourself! Don’t disrespect your body in the future by giving it to someone who does not love you or commit to being with you.
Good luck, be strong for your baby!
Your better off without him. Try to stay relaxed & calm. Maybe go out to dinner or a movie w/some good friends to help keep your mind off him! You don’t want to stress too much b/c this is unhealthy for the baby!
you’ll be fine if you’re strong and if you just think about that little life growing inside of u.i’m 23 with 3 kids and i left my kids father bcuz he became abbusive and controlling.my kids are 2,3, and 4yrs old.i got focused made plans got in college but didn’t finish yet.i had hard trimes looking for jobs.its a struggle but my kids make it worth it.plus i have to much fun with them to think about anything negative.you’ll see what i mean soon.good luck.its not that hard ur kid will love u more than anyone ever has.
you’ll be fine. my first pregnancy the dad left as soon as he found out, then we got back together and he just kept leaving until he eventually kicked me out of our house and left me to move all the heavy furniture 7 months pregnant.dumb.but honestly I look at my daughter and I could care less he’s a loser. he’s back in the picture now but only when it’s convenient for him.hes not paying anymore and refuses to help. let me say, if you can make a clean break from your dbag bf do so because its much easier on you to just cut him out now.
I am goin thro the same thing, but as the due date gets closer and closer he seems to be getting sweeter and sweeter maybe he was just afraid and didn’t no how to handle it. The real test will come when baby comes home. Hope I help u a bit. Here is my email Debbie_alvarado_91@yahoo.com find me on face book.
I was with my ex for quite a while we used tom do everything together and he always said i was his best friend and he didnt want to lose me anyway when i found out i was pregnant i was shocked at first but then came round to the idea of having a baby i was so happy i told my partner straight away he just said we will sort something i asked what he meant and he said i will need to have an abortion because he is muslim and we need to be married first. We discussed this for a few days and i just couldnt do it as its against everything i believe when i told him this he went mad he said if i have an abortion he will marry me and have more kids i felt bad but i just couldnt do it he said if i dont get rid he will kill himself . A few days later he changed his number and i never heard from him again i now have a beautiful 4 month old baby boy and coping really well im so happy i do think about my ex every day because i was so much in love with him but i believe if he can do that to me he is not worth it and now i have more important things in my life so i dont need that coward i love my baby boy so much the only thing im worried about is if he did come back he hurt me so much and he left when i was only 1 month pregnant so i dont think he deserves to be a part of my babys life i think my baby boy will be better of with out him im just so worried incase he does come back he wont even know that he has a son. Im just very scared he might come to take him.