how do i make things better with my mom?
ok im 16.. me and my mom have been fighting a lot there past few months.. it was all getting better but i messed it all up again and we had a really big fight today.. and ontop of that… later she caught me red handed smoking in my room and was pissed!! like 30 min later my dad stormes in and starts yelling at me!! he has never once yelled at me ever.. and i have never seen him that mad..he is taking away my com. tv and all phones and he saids that i cant have any contact with my boyfriend for another month..this is the first problem iv had with my dad and i dont know how it will go from here.but me and my mom have a huge problem.. i feel like she hates my guts! she allways puts me down and nothing is ever good enough for her…iv tryed telling her how i feel but i cant ever talk to her face to face b/c she never lets me talk or she thinks im just using that "feel sorry for me " act…i just dont know what to do anymore and i dont know how to get her trust back.. any suegestions..
*i know i messed up and i just want some advice .. not omg your too young to smoke blah blah blah .. iv heard it all and i dont need anyone else to tell me.. thank you " )*
so im thinking about sending her am email so she gets it tomorrow so she has all day to think about it…do you think that would help?!?
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you can talk to your boyfriend all you want your dad cannot tell you you can’t my parents know i smoke my mom caught me a few times but she doesn’t rly care sit down and talk with her try not raising your voice just be calm about it try not argueing with her for starters you know why you argue with her try not to anymore she starts bitching about something just ignore her i haven’t really ever had any problems like that happen to me so i don’t really know what to do, just trying to help out the best i can, if she starts yelling at you for something don’t yell back at her just keep your cool and go to your room or go away from her unless you like stole something from her then she has every right to yell at you, just try keeping your cool thats all i got
You said yourself that you messed up then to top it off smoked in your room. What did you expect? You have to learn to think before you act. act=consequences It is that simple. You know what the rules are, do what you’re told. I have a feeling, because your dad yelled at you for the first time, that he is getting pretty frustrated at either/both the way you are behaving and the way you are treating your mother. That is a pretty good indicator that you are pushing things too far. Back it down.
Perhaps writing your mom a letter is not such a bad idea. But I think you should give it to her personally and tell her that you are having a hard time telling her how you feel so you wrote it down. Then sit down with her while she reads and be prepared to listen to what she has to say, then discuss with her how you can improve the way the two of you communicate.
Incidentally, the I’ve heard it all attitude needs to go. It’s probably part of the problem.
you said it and you know it.You messed it up . try to be extra nice when you talk to your parents,ask forgiveness and try to make amends. and girl,study your values in life you’ve got a big attitude problem.{ just read between the lines}