My girlfriend is saving herself til marriage but we do have oral sex. She never wants to fool around though…?
She even gets angry sometimes when I want to fool around. How do I get her in the mood more often?
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i think thats very rare dont take it away from her this is a special thing..
if you like her then marry her
Best not to push her if she’s not interested, but as simple as it sounds, being nice works.
Umm some girls like to wait till there married and its going to be really hard for you if you want to do somethin with her so have fun and good luck with that
Oral sex is not saving yourself for marriage. Stop pushing yourself on her….jerk.
If you really love your girlfriend you’ll respect her decision to wait until marriage and not pressure her into things she obviously doesn’t want to do.
you should respect her and stop pressuring her. she already gave you oral sex, and you think you’re some kind of victim? get over yourself. im so sick of guys thinking with the wrong head. be a gentleman. its not all about you and your disgusting junk
She doesn’t want to fool around because its so difficult to stop just with oral sex.
Remember its not the same for her as it is for you. After a guy ejaculates its pretty easy to say "ok, I’m good". With women its not the same at all women are only truly satisfied when they are too spent to continue. As you are only limited to oral sex, this could be difficult to achieve.
If you love and respect her than you should get use to enjoying cold showers and your right hand. Playing around with oral sex is playing with fire. If she breaks her vow because she got too carried away with you, then she will really hate you, and herself.
P.S.: You say your girlfriend is saving herself for marriage, but your question implies that you are not. Unless the two of you have some kind of open relationship, you are also now saving yourself. Hope your up to that. If not you should probably have a serious sit down to establish exactly why it is the two of you are together before things go too far.
Dude, even though you won’t wanna hear it, you need to respect her decision.
This shows she has respect for you and wants to fully give herself when you guys are married.
It must mean alot to her and she’s willing to do so when she knows the relationship’s stable, so enjoy what you guys already do and wait. If the oral is getting boring or the same old, spice it up a little.
when you say "we have oral sex"
does it go both ways? are you keeping things even?
maybe make it more about her once in a while star giving her back/shoulder rub or foot massage and kiss her neck and on the lips passionately and let your hands wander over her body if she complains or says she doesn’t want to tell her she doesn’t need to anything but relax and enjoy what you want to do to her (still says no respect that and stop) then touch her and kiss her thighs and give her oral. don’t ask for anything back on those special nights and maybe she’ll enjoy herself more
well no duh she gets upset. youre pushing yourself onto her when you dam right know she doesnt want to do anything. stop pushing her to do something she doesnt want to and just love her and accept her decision..
get out while you can. ive been there. try to get a few more bj’s while you’re at it though…
Don’t try to do sex with her all the times. Avoid oral sex. It is not good.
Ya know, its really annoying how guys are always pushovers and jerks for wanting a girl in a sexual way… its not like its the only thing he wants from her, he respects her still in the fact that he isn’t forcing her…
But to stay on topic, I found it to be pointless to try… if she wants to save it, getting her to give it to you is gonna hurt your relationship more afterwards anyway. she needs to know that you’ll respect her boundaries but also that you’d like her to do whatever.
But if your really set on it, be nice to her, persistant but not pushy, and smooth about it, she’ll come around and do it one day, and she’ll like it…
(Take her out to dinner, something somewhat romantic, then just be together afterwards… so she knows you care, then maybe an hour or so before you call it a night, start the fooling around…)