How to recover from a rebound relationship?
i was with this girl i courted her and she answered to me. we last for about 2 months. after that she gave me a tons of reasons and broke up. i finally learned that she just broke up with her ex-boyfriend when I courted her, and she said that i am only a fling and she is not considering me as a boyfriend? i am so pissed off! what things i can do to recover?
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Same thing happened to me as well I’m sure for a lot of people. The best thing you can do is put this girl at the back of your mind and move forward with life. She obviously didn’t care or want you. All she wanted was the attention of someone until she found someone she really wanted. So why waste time moping over her. Why would you want someone who doesn’t even want you? I can only explain it as a stinging sensation that can only go away with time. Now the right girl wants you and there are a lot of beautiful strong girls out there that I guarantee are better than this girl. So get out there and find one. Remember there is always hope. Don’t feel like you are never good enough you are perfect and the right person will love everything about you. Rebounds are sucky heartbreaks and you will have millions of heartbreaks in your life but each one makes you a stronger person.
Face the facts. Rebounds happen (sometimes you need one, sometimes you ARE one). Go find someone else to be happy with, or be single for a little while. In any case, forget about her.
Forgive her. Yep, the hardest part but the first part. She was hurting and she used you. It happens and if you can forgive her, then your own hurt isn’t go great, in fact is actually begins melting away.
OK, she wasn’t honest and wanted you to end the relationship, that was small of her, but she’s still screwy in her mind. Chalk it up to a crazy broad and move on.
You end up putting your heart out several times, getting it stomped on but eventually you find the right match. As your heart recovers from this bruise, ask yourself……..how long was she giving you hints the relationship wasn’t going forward? You wanted it to and were blind to her actions. In the future you’ll be more aware……hopefully.
Your pain is the same pain we hear about in operas, plays, it’s centuries old. Sing your aria of grief…….and then get back out there and find someone new to love.