How do i get an ex girlfriend to want to go out with me again?
my girlfriend broke up with me the other day and we haven’t really talked since though i have tried. i really liked her we went out for four months i don’t think that was long enough. she lived about 40 miles away and she used to stay at my place quite i bit but over the last few weeks she stopped coming over. she also told me that things weren’t moving fast enough. so i tried to speed them up. she said i was controlling because i didnt like it when she went to parties without me and i also wanted her to come over alot and also didn’t like when she smoked weed. when we broke up she told me that she still wants to have sex with me and she still wants to be friends but i dont know what to to i really want her back i havent eaten in like 3 days and cant sleep very well and on top of all that i feel like krap. i feel really depressed and i am not myself right now please help me either get her back or get over her in a timely manor
thanx
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dude, lighten up. if you like her then accept her for the way she is, or don’t. if she makes your heart skip a beat then keep her. if not, then obviously let her go.
Dealing with any kind of grief is a process not completed overnight ( with most of us, anyway.). The sooner you begin getting over this girl- the sooner you will be ready to move on. If she parties and smokes weed ( and you DON’T ), then she’s not likely the girl you want to be with long-term anyhow. Apparently she just wants you for sex, and I hope you have more personal pride and self-respect than to fall for that. And don’t forget…she broke up with YOU! Just go on about your business and remind yourself that the problem is with her, not you.
exes are exes for a reason hun..you just need to let go and get over it for your own sake
the only reason girls want to go parties without their bf is because she’s wants other guys to see her as available so they can continue to flirt with her.. i hate it.
if she matters to you that much, then go and see her yourself. If she wants a friends with benefits relationship, then know that neither of you have any claim on each other but also the 40 miles will be filled with thoughts of how she is going to get you off. You will get her back on her terms. If you are in love with her, she may not be ready for anything like that.
You’re young…and so is she.
A girl (Woman), let’s a guy chase her until SHE decides to let him Catch her.
If she was honest with you, she would tell you her True feelings and not use flimsy excuses that drive you crazy.
There are PLENTY of Fish in the ocean….try casting your bait in another direction. You just might be surprised at what you find.
If she smokes pot and wants to have sex with you she is Very Insecure of her own feelings and doesn’t know how to say good-bye.
BE A MAN…..get out there and find a Keeper…a Woman who will have your values and be open and upfront!!
Drop the girl….get a Woman….life is a long journey, and having doubts with your partner makes for a rough road.
My Mom used to say…"No Love is better than Bad Love."
Your young….think about it…take the time to find out what YOU really want, and quit crying over someone who hasn’t found herself yet, either.
Good Luck!!! Now grab a True Bud and go have a Beer and get the girl out of your system.