How Can I Get My Ex-Boyfriend Back?
we broke up about 3 months ago. and im still in love with him. i need him badly right now. my life seems to be falling apart right now (other reasons) but ive tried everything! for about a month after we broke up he still called me and told me that we would get back together, and my friends told me to ignore him and make him think, i didn’t…then after a while he stopped i kept calling him and then he said it was over, i still kept calling him….i even begged (sadly) then i came up with plan that i would ignore him and look my best, but yet be friendlly it worked for about 2 weeks and he would randomly start talking to me..came to a party that one of my friends had (he would never go to) and started to talk to my friends out of no where, and then asked me why i wasnt with them, then he started hanging around this younger girl…which i swear is a total guy….he hates girly girls but i didn’t expect him to date a total man!!! im the type that hates being know for being a girl girl also, but i know when to look my best and not act like "one of the guys" and such….every time we talk he mentions her….gives her a ride home everyday (they live not far from each other) and hangs out with her on weekends….she broke up with her ex about a week ago. and from what i hear she still likes him…..her and her ex have been on and off for about a year now….and my ex an I were dating for almost a year….we did everything together…even went ot funerals and vacations…we have liked each other for about 2 years then dated and now im stuck here…. when we did break up he said he still loved me…….what should i do to get him back..ive tried to getting over him…ive tried dating…and such but he still is there, i need him back desperately please help me…i need some ways that will guarantee him back to me…..i cant get over him no matter what i do…..it makes me want him even more
please help
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Quit stressing, if it is meant to happen, it will. xox
just let it go, there are other people out there.
idk
KILL HIS CHICK.
JK, DON’T DO THAT.
you don’t really miss him, you miss what it ‘feels’ like when your with him. But you don’t need him to feel that way, dont make him your only source of happiness.
tell him dude ill totally touch your nads
sweetheart, if you loves you he’ll come back
sounds like he’s moving on with the man.. gas is way too expensive for him to just be giving her a ride for free.. time to start dating someone else.. your too good to beg..
tell him u was wrong and that u want to get back
with him
Who split up with who?
Im in a similar situation where she split up with me. My situation is probably more complicated
either you should let it go or you make it up..say your sorry tell him you need him tell him you still like him does he still like you if he does.. dont make him jealous though!you might think its a good ideabut it isnt… that girl………………it probably makes you feel to pull her hair off
Let it go.
You need to face reality. You tried the tricks and he didn’t come back, and by the way guys NEVER respond to the contant calling, tearful begging and pleading all it does is convince them they were right to leave you. You kind of put the nails in the coffin so to speak. You don’t want a guy who doesn’t love you, and he doesn’t. So get on with life and find some new guys to date. It will hurt, maybe for a long time, but you will find someone eventually.
It looks like he has moved on, now you should too. He can’t give you what you need.
well u should have a talk with him but a nice calm one.and start by saying how have u been and have u ben going ok.but if he says something that makes to mad dont scream back or nothing just say i know in sorry.
The best thing to do is just let him be aware that you still want to be with him, and the rest is up to him. Don’t make yourself seem desperate and clingy, guys don’t like that. And try not to linger on just him, because it sounds like he has his options open if he’s flirting with another girl. But I know what it’s like to love so I know it will be hard. If he moves on, you can’t wait on him forever. It sounds cliche but there are plenty of fish in the sea. Best of luck to you.
Don’t follow your "friends’" advice playing games trying to manipulate him. Be your true self. And straight up tell him how you feel. Then let him tell you how he feels. If it wasn’t meant to be, you should accept that and move on. You can’t make something be what you want if it’s not that. You have to let it be what it is. And if it doesn’t work out with him, then start looking for someone better for you.
OK> I hate to be the one but…Why didn’t you get back together with him for the mth that he was asking you? Have you asked yourself this question? This may be the answer to all your problems with this guy. Just think about it.
Forget about him, find some body else and bring him over to where you ex boyfriend is. Move on!
Well if you talk to him like you ask questions I don’t wonder why you two broke up. I hear fire trucks. If he loves you he will end up with you like you want to end up with him.
ive been in a similar situation. im not sure how old u r but uh keep dating other ppl, occupy ur time to keep ya mind off him. maybe its not time for u to get over him. keep ya head up cuz only time can heal.
You ever stopped to ask yourself why do you want to get back with him? Sounds like your sudden desperation to get back with him is because he broke up with you. You’re feeling rejected and lonely. That’s not what love is. I’m going to tell you something I wish I would have figured out in my teen years. Never center your happiness around having a guy in your life. It’s a sign of being clingy and having low self-esteem. The more you obsess over having this guy back, the more it turns him off. I’m sure he can pick up on your desperation a mile away and this is making him run far away from you. Stop doing this to yourself. Start hanging out with your friends and dating other guys. You will be happier in the long run.
Hello! he’s an ex-boy friend for a reason, just remember that reason and move on. Girl if there was a reason for breaking up with him in the first place then you are definitely way too good for that loser. you’ll get through this trust me. don’t think you need him to get through it, you are strong enough on your own.
I´ve been there and it sucks. I thought life would never be the same and i remember praying to God to bring her back to me.
Don´t worry time will heal all wounds( yeah i know! time is SLOW when your in pain).
I met my ex again at a party 3 years later and i turned her down because i found someone even better.
I would get one of his friends, ask for his help (ask something like : can you tell who ever this person is about what a great person i am, and try to help us get back together) they would tell him he was stupid for letting "our" relationship end and that HE is having a blast with her and yatta yatta yatta and he’ll might want you back. What ever you do do NOT mess around with his brother or any of his friends to get him back, he will probably get not like you.It may take a while but in the long run he’ll turn back. Just TRY and hide your sadness and heartache.And if he has a sister or someone of his family your age start hanging out with them and become their friend so he sees you more and might want to spend more time with you.
but if nothing works it isn’t meant to be