How to save my marriage while living with evil mother in law?
*Sigh* I was cooking salmon when my mother in law spray those dollar air spray on the kitchen. I stop cooking for her because she finds every fault on my cooking, so my husband told her to cook for herself. This is not the first time she did this to me and I am ready to give up on my marriage. She plays the I am sick with my husband, so she cant be by herself. I am thinking of leaving my husband because he told me he just cant leave her by herself because she is sick. My mother in law is 52, doesn’t work and just sit all day. Am I right to make such drastic decision or should I just stay with him and hope for the best?
P.S.
My husband and I doesn’t have any intimate relationship because this evil women sleep in front of our bedroom because she is scared.
she’s clinically depressed and maybe paranoid (it seems)
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It will never work .Your husband needs to stop being a mama’s boy and put his food down and stop letting her disrespect you.Trust me been there done that.It will never work you and your husband need to get live in nurse or put her in a nursing home. But WOW 52 is still so young what are her problems?
get her a nurse if she is really that sick, or put her in a home.
I wouldn’t blame you for leaving, but marriage is about family and not just your husband. I’d recommend family counseling because obviously she has issues, and you have issues, and your husband has issues. So, just work it out with someone who can have an objective eye, who wont judge the situation based on their own needs.
How is she sick, btw. Is it terminal, or is she just paranoid?
That is pretty weird. It does not sound like you have a relationship with a man. Rather you under the control of that woman.
wow and my wife thinks my moms bad. lol. its not possible for wife and mother in law to live in the same house. or any two women for that matter women have to have things there own way they dont have any go with the flow in them. dont go just yet. he is in a possition that is impossible. he needs to please you both. and with you together that cant happen. so at some point you have to make it her or you. but dont come out and say that because you will look cruel and may end up on the outs. push her out the door with a smile. she is running you over and acting innocent. run her over kindly assert your will for your home and she will leave. keep cooking if she doesnt like it she can starve. move her bed across the house and get her a baby monitor and pretend thats a compliment and caring guesture. step it up and your marriage does not have to end.
If you really love your husband…stay…you did promise for better or worse…and the crazy woman will die someday…do not let her ruin your marriage. as for her weird habits to kill your sex life….sneak off with him and have a fun fest in your vehicle
two women in same house is never a good idea…never works, always fight, one always wants to control its like territory….my thing would be to talk to my husband and tell him exactly how u feel..then tell him ur MIL needs a nurse who can take care of her and cook for her and do things to her liking…and when u cook…yes cook for you and your husband and her, if she dont like it well she aint got to eat it and she can cook for herself or hire someone to do it. let her do her own laundry, etc. if she can, if she cant then she can hire someone to do it….if its your house, then its your rules so start laying down the rules……
This woman is working you. Tell your husband you are worried that a woman her age shouldn’t be so sick, tell him that you both should take her for a full check up and get her help. If she won’t cooperate then tell him you need to get an apartment for her and for you two so you can be near her but have some privacy. If he won’t do any of this tell him you all need family counseling, if that suggestion fails then it is time to pack your bags and not look back.
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