I want my lover back but his pregnant fiance won’t let him talk to me?
So I still need more feedback on this situation. 3 years ago I had an affair. I know it was wrong, but my soon to be ex husband is a very cruel man. I was with my ex lover 4 months until I got pregnant. I hoped it was my lover’s baby but it was my husbands so I had to break it off. My lover told me he’s wait for me. Now I have contacted him on facebook and he isn’t responding the way I had hoped he would. This it what I sent him…..
I haven’t heard from you in forever! What are you doing now, where are you working, living, etc.? What’s going on with you? I haven’t cried this much in a very long time. Anyway, other than going through a divorce and trying to raise the kids on my own, things here are about the same. I miss hearing from you. Soooo, who is this girl your seeing? You’ve got a bunch of hearts after her name in your default pic???? Are you having a good time love? I hope so! You look good!Love you!
He messaged me weeks later and said that girl in the pic was pregnant with his child and he was going to marry her. He said that he would love to still talk to me but, I guess he told his fiance about me and she doesn’t want us to talk so now he is ignoring me. I have sent him a friends request and he denied it. I asked him why he is being so cold and he said it is because he respects his fiance and loves her and his future baby and then he quit talking to me. Why would he do this to me if he said he would wait for me to divorce my husband 3 years ago? I know he is young (he is 23 and I am 43) but he told me he’d wait for me to leave my husband and now he’s with this little girl and got her pregnant? Why is she tuning him against me? How can I win him back?
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You’ve had your fun, it’s time to step back now. There is an innocent baby involved and it deserves to see it’s parents give their relationship a good shot. Things are different. This isn’t about you anymore. Time will heal your broken heart, you just need to stay away from him. Stop contacting him on Facebook. Don’t call or email. Just disappear from his life completely. You will eventually find happiness elsewhere, you just need to be brave enough to go out there and find it. Do the right thing.
Isn’t that sad. She’s winning because she’s 23 and you are not.
She is fighting for her man. You can’t expect any man to wait 3 years until you get your life together. He got over you, fell in love, and is getting married.
You missed out. He realized that it was silly for him to sit around waiting on a married woman to leave her husband for him. He wasn’t committed and shouldn’t be holding it down for you. He’s moved on and he is happy. You shouldn’t bother him.
You can’t win him back. His heart is with his fiancee and his unborn child. You should salvage any self respect you have left and leave this man be. He’s been honourable now. 3 years ago was what it was, 3 years ago. You’re his past, she’s his future. He has matured and he has moved on, so should you.
For a 23y.o. he sounds more mature than you. You were a fling, an older woman to teach him things… but now he’s found a real love…leave him alone you know better. His fiancee is not turning him against you, he has moved on. I think you need to get some therapy…in the meantime, you are a mother….focus your energy on your babies…in time the right man will come along for you.
You dumped him and he found someone else. It’s too late. Let him go. Frankly, I’m surprised at the age difference. It sounded like you’ve jumped from one frying pan to another without trying to resolve the problems first. Leave him alone. You blew it.
stop read what you have written
you have messed up you have had a bad time both ways stop wondering and thinking of this chap get yourself sorted forget him he is possibly a user. your better than that you have made mistakes now you have a chance to get your life back on track its not easy i know i have been there done that .
you can and will do it and reflect what has been a traumatic time .
go for it and do yourself a favour good luck dear hope it all turns ok for you
At the risk of sounding harsh, he’s in love with her, and not you. That’s all you had, an affair. He wasn’t committed to anyone at the time. Now he’s in love and getting married, so you should respect him and leave him be. And his fiancé hasn’t done anything, it’s his choice, and you have to admit he has made an excellent decision in respecting her, he must be in love.
I’m sorry for what you’ve been through, this can’t make it any easier, but you’ll get there.
Love Tri
i think you should give up. your being selfish and that preggers is doing the right thing because she knows that your going to try and take him back if you can talk to him. you cheated first and you knew it was wrong. find another man. god lady take a hint
Are you serious!? Get a life. Unlike you, he actually respects the partner in his relationship and doesn’t want to cheat. He is taken. Move on. You cant "win" him back when he loves someone else.
Sorry, but it’s over.
He changed his mind about you, as he had every right to do.
His new baby needs its parents more than you’ll ever need this man. Your presence in their lives can only disrupt them. Please do the right thing, the unselfish thing. Leave them free to concentrate on giving their kid a good, stable, loving home.
I don’t mean to be harsh. This is just reality. Time to move on.
Are you serious….according to this post you have a three year old child and he has a newborn on the say with a woman he loves…STOP BEING SELFISH and thinking of only yourself. He’s happy, let him be it your meant to be with him it will be. Leave him alone. If you and your husband are truly done, use your energy and thought to be a good mother and not a homewrecker. Once you do that, then you can work on your self esteem…obviously somethng is wrong with it, robbing the cradle then trying to STEAL this man from the woman he says he loves and respects. You should respect that. Go be a mommy…get your priorities together….smdh *shaking my damn head*
Oh my god let it go loser geeesh cant you see he moved on with his life and wants you to have no part in it. Its not her fault she is not turning him, that is her man now and has every right to want your slutty a$$ out of the picture – leave them alone they are starting a family
yeah he really wants a 43 y.o. with a bunch of kids, hes 23 he wants his own kid. good luck. no theres no reason to be friends. he was wrong to have sex with another man’s wife, he used you.
You are an idiot who has no respect at all. Get the hint he doesn’t want your old ass anymore. If he wanted you he’d be with you get over it and concentrate on your kids and less about an ex who moved on. Are you that desperate??
I think you need a few news flashes here:
1. You are 43. He is 23. Do the maths.
2. It’s been 3 years. He has moved on and is about to have a family of his own. Get a clue.
3. When you had your affair with him, you showed him your true colours. He knows that if you’d cheat on your then-husband with him, someday you’ll cheat on him with someone else. He has wisely decided that he doesn’t need your drama in his life.
4. A fiance is a guy. Learn how to spell.
how dare you expect this young man to put his life on hd for you when its takenyou 3 years to leave your husband! 3 years is a long time, alot can and has happened! i applaud this ’23 year old’ for plucking up the courage to move on with his life and wising up to what you are- a selfish user!
now he has a chance of happiness and you are out to destroy it and why? because your lonely going througha divorce? do you realise this man now has a great future set out? why would he give the soon to be mother of his child up for a distant ex that treated him so badly? hes moved on, hes happy…and hes not yours!!!
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