Wife says she’s still in love with ex but she doesn’t want him back she wants to stay with me and make us work?
She says she loves me but is not in love with me. Well about a month ago my wife started contact with her ex about a week ago she began to do shit to help him move in up here at Fort Bragg(hes army were airforce). I trust her very much and i understand to whole inlove with him thing it happens i’m still in love with my ex but i am also in love with her and i know in my heart where i want to be-which is with her. Well one day she,while he was at our house(yeah hes also an old friend of mine) she blocked me out completely and decided that she was leaving i helped pack her shit and she left for a ride and came back a few hours later and said she was leaving tomorrow. Now the whole time i’m not lieing i told her that she didn’t have to do it but she kept saying she couldnt stay hell i practically begged. Well the next day i told her i love and she said she loved me and she left. Ten minutes later she came back and confessed everything. She also told him that she wasn’t going to talk to him anymore because that she loved me me and she liked me being happy. I know cause i was there i wouldnt take her word for that shit. I am very forgiving and when i feel that someone is truly deserving of that i will forgive. Well we both discussed why she loves him and she says she cant even remember how being with him was she says that he is different from me in that he can say i love you without saying it, you know in another word set, whereas i am more of the show you i love you kind of guy and that neither is better shes just still in love with him but wants to be in love with me. Well one of the reasons she broke up with him is cause he was controlling always using pity to get her to do what he wanted like come to him. Well twice this week since that almost marriage ending problem she has gone to talk to him while he talk shit about suicide and going awol. She swears nothing is going on and i wanna trust her but this is truely some shit. i dont know what to do anymore i really think it is better that we separate but i just dont know i love her so much and i do think this is worth saving but i think she will never really be happy with me. Oh and we’ve only married for five months. Questions comments advice?
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If your wife is still in love with her ex, LET HER GO NOW. I am married to a woman that still loves her ex husband, and even after thirteen years, she still hurts because he is with some one else. It will not get better, only worst.
Save yourself, and go and be by yourself. Take it from a man that lives this life everyday, thinking that it would be better.
she will cheat on you with him the first chance she gets ,dont be a dumb azz
Sounds like she wasn’t ready to get married to one man and be monogamous.
your to forgiven!!! Me, BYE.. end of conversation..
man up find a new girl…..
Hun, you sound to be too good for the like of her. She is clearly playing a game with you. She wants both of you. In order to be with someone and want to be happy she has to be in love with you ,not love you. There is a huge difference.Everyone has the right to be happy, and you sound like you are not all that happy, but stressed. No way to live. You should be able to be with someone who only wants to be with you, and someone you will not have to second guess, and should be able to believe that what they are saying to you is true.
I personally think that the best thing for you to do is to go your own ways. You deserve the chance to meet someone who will treat you with the respect that you deserve, and give you the love that you are able to give out as well.
Just wonder how can she really love you to the fullest when she’s in love with someone else. When you love someone you give your ALL. Including your undivided attention. There should be no other male friends in her life that have the same love as she gives you. This is what separates you from all other men in her life.
I would say a relationship like this can’t work as it is. As it is already showing signs that it can’t. Either get counseling to get to the root of the problem or talk to each other to find out if this is something the two of you want to be in without any distractions. If not, then I don’t see how it will work.
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Good luck
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